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09/05/2026

If Your Boyfriend Isn’t Giving You Money, How Can You Feel? Xaven Poses An Important Question

By Muzamba Siandizya

Gents, please come to the front. Ladies, for today just sit back, relax and observe what your brothers are about to say because this conversation.

If you listen closely to Xaven’s music, she says the things many ladies are scared to say out loud. The things your girlfriend may never tell you directly, but immediately discusses with her best friend after your phone call ends.

And honestly, maybe that’s why so many people relate to her music.

While appearing on the Kenny T 1 On 1 Podcast, Kenny T asked Xaven what really inspires some of her lyrics. She said she talks about the things people are afraid to say. Then she dropped a question:

“If you’re in a relationship and your boyfriend is not giving you money, how can you feel?”

Now before the gentlemen in the comments start adjusting imaginary ties and preparing long paragraphs, let’s be honest, this topic always causes confusion.

Some men believe love should be enough. Others believe if you truly love someone, supporting them financially should come naturally. Meanwhile, some ladies are reading this silently and remembering all the times they heard “let me see what I can do babe” or “I’m waiting for a ka payment”

But whether you agree with Xaven or not, one thing she does very well is start conversations people were already having privately. She simply says them loudly into a microphone.

So let’s hear from you. Can a relationship survive without financial support from a man? Or are women asking for too much these days?