Mpho Chivas

*Excellent article

*WAKE UP PARENTS*

Years back, *poor illiterate parents* produced
🔹Doctors,
🔹Engineers,
🔹 Scientists,
🔹 Accountants,
🔹 Lawyers,
🔹 Architects,
🔹 Professors.., whom I will refer to as *Group 'A'*.

These *Group 'A'* Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities. Most of them
👉trekked to school *barefooted*
👉went to farms
👉fetched water and firewood
👉cared for domesticated animals
👉did some work including trading after school to survive.

Now Group 'A' ,who have now become Parents themselves are *producing Group 'B' Children*
These group B children are
🔹pampered
🔹 helped in their homeworks or home assignments from nursery school through secondary schools to higher institutions.
🔹chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study.
🔹they can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
🔹 they are treated like baby kings and queens.
🔹they don't do any household chores.
🔹Food is put on the table for them,
🔹their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
🔹They are given expensive cars and clothes,
🔹not forgetting *big pocket money to be wasted* !!!.
🔹Their parents help them in doing their assignments.
🤔 In spite of all these, only few can *speak* or *write* correctly. 😏

🤔Group 'A' Parents cared for their own *parents* and *children*, Group 'B',their Children are still *struggling to find their feet at age 30+*.‼
🤔They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by Group 'A'. So they can't help themselves, their parents or the society. THEY ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE WORLD

😴 *Where do you belong*❓
🏮Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
🏮 Let your children *grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength*.
🏮Let them face the truth and the realities of life. Teach them to grow to become *independent adults.* Teach them to
👉fear God,
👉respect others and
👉develop confidence in themselves.
🤔Parents, discipline your children to become disciplined adults, *useful* and not *useless.*

Share with all ur near ones & make a difference in their lives... 😊👍👍

My family, bo inlaws
No one is holding your brothers bank cards. Even if she does, it's still oky. Your brothers excuse it's just lame, he don't have that cash or don't want to give you. So stop continuing to be stupid and blame your sisters inlaws for what you can't get. If he want to give you, he will transfer. If he said wife see it all, know that your brother is week and can not protect his wife and when you rejoice in it, know that your male family generation is of week. If you are not selfish, tell him straight that he must just state he don't have than trying to be stupid.

Men, please stop this nonsense. Your wife being used as a shield for what. If your salaries can't afford extended family members, tell the straight. Most women are being attacked by inlaws so this nonsense.

We are talking about men who does this not anything else. So your engagement in this should teach others better ways. This killings family struchers.

The best gift you can give to your kids is to love their mother.
Ms Chivas

When I tell my friends that I am a broke ass, they don't trust me. They said I am lying. Then I started to tell them that I am rich as * "*. They said I am bragging. The only thing they need from both instances if what I can offer them. I am broke (she is stiggy) I am rich (why can't she give us some shares). Truth is, I learn that the world don't owe me a thing. Work hard until you crack how to respond to those statements.
Ms chivas