Midah

Learning things is always fascinating. So I recently took interest into Narcissists and narcissistic tendencies.

I learnt that Narcissists do not want honest relationships, they want cheerleaders.

They want people who always give them the right.

They want blind loyalty. They want unconditional acceptance, no matter what they do.

As long as you don't question anything they do, or give them the wrong on anything, they might just leave you alone.

But watch out, if you disagree with them, or go against them in any way….in their eyes, this is the deepest betrayal, and it never goes unpunished.

Narcissists are spiteful and vindictive. Their egos are fragile, so any form of disagreement feels like an attack.

They won’t argue logically; they will attack your character, your past, and your confidence. They manipulate others to turn against you, rewrite stories, and make themselves look like the victim.

Their need to be worshipped outweighs any sense of fairness or love. The moment you stop serving their fantasy, you become their enemy.

That's not love - it's control disguised as connection.

Protect your peace. Know the difference.

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