George Morcous

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First time I actually don’t understand the joke.

Got cheated on… again…
I[22M] am crazy for this girl ‘A’[23F]. Grab your popcorn cause this is a long read. I first met her in 2017 when i used to go for my weekend IIT classes. We talked for quite a while but then soon drifted apart cause i was interested in someone else and ‘A’ knew all about it. We started talking again recently in november of 2024. I had broken up with the previous girl who i was dating approx 5 years ago and i was madly in love with her till a year ago.

Me and A started talking again, and she had also come out of a toxic and abusive relationship 8 months ago. Things went from talking to meeting to hugging to kissing and so on. We shared a lot of our darkest secrets in the coming 2 months. Here is the where it gets messy. My so called bestfriend ‘K’[23M], who i know since 11 years is also interested in the girl.

A made it very clear wid him and me that she liked me. And for my bestfriends satisfaction and for not breaking the bro-code, i even asked him if he was fine if i go ahead with A to which he replied “you are my brother, i have no problem, u go ahead with her i will be more than happy”. Listening to this i did what my heart wanted.

Things went good for a month or so and i genuinely felt i could have something with A. K was still flirting with her and giving her things, which A told me, but she also told me to not tell him any of it as it would hurt him. This is where things started to get fu**ed. I did what she told, i still made it clear to K that i like A and i am goin forward with her, to which he had the same reply. A told me there is nothing to worry about even when i kept telling her what k’s intentions were.

From here on out will be the series of lies told by K and A to me on my face, the two people who i thought care the most about me -

First lie - On Jan 19th, A messaged me out of the blue that things had to end between me and her as she wasnt over her ex.

Second lie- K knew that me and A had stopped seeing each other. He messaged me the next day i.e., Jan 20th, he asked me if i was doing fine, i told it was about A and he told me to let the girl go and she isint worth it. This lie will make sense later on.

Third lie - On Jan 20th i saw A and K in the car, coming back from somewhere. I saw the car for a split second so i am not sure, but my eyes did not deceive me. I saw her sitting on the passenger seat the very next day after she broke things of with me. When i asked the both about it, they denied telling that i am wrong.

Fourt lie- K and A started texting me very frequently around the same time span, like 1-2 minutes apart. This was usually before we came down. So my gut told me that they both were meeting each other and then calling me. Which when i asked them about it, they ofcourse, lied.

Fifth lie- it was jan 31st. I hadnt slept properly and i had a very tough but fun football game. The plan was to later go to A’s house and drink, me, A, K and 5 of our other friends. This id when the story takes a turn.

Turning point - A still used to care for me a lot, i thought she wasnt over her ex and i still tried a lot for her when she told me not to. That was my mistake. I should’ve listened to her, but me being me, always chasing the girl i am in love with did it regardless. On the night of 31st jan, basically 1st feb, we were all drinking and having a good time. A and K were sittin in the balcony, and when i wanted to go for a smoke, K made some excuse and told me to go away. I understood what was going on. After 10 mins, A came back crying very badly, and she wasnt telling me why, so i went to K in the balcony and kept bothering him about what he said until he gave in.

The first words which came out of K’s mouth were “A never liked you”, thats when it hit me, i went numb, i kept thinking why, i thought it was because of her ex. Until K told this “ she used to ask me to come see her from the balcony, used to flirt with me and asked me to do things for her”. Thats when A came to the balcony, i dropped the beer bottle, slammed the door and told her to go away. She did not listen. I opened the balcony door and took my Belongings and left. I told her bestfriend, to f**k off. Because she was the one consoling me. I just asked her if she knew and she told “yes”. I opened the door and ran away, my other friend stopped me and calmed me down and kept askin what happend, i told him i got betrayed by two of the closest people in my life. I punched the wall twice and f**kd up my knuckles and bones.

From here, K found me and told he wanted to talk to me, A came following and told she needs to be there because it involves her, even when i told her to go away, she stayed. K told me how it all started.

Here is where the second lie makes more sense. K told me it started on 19th of jan. When after me, K and A had come back from drinking. K dropped me home first and then went ahead to drop A. This is when A broke down in front of him telling that i was messing with her head. How exactly was i messing with her head? Let me tell you.

So in the beginning of mine and A’s so called “relationship”, A kept telling me i am not expressive or i am not emotional enough. I have a very very very bad ongoing family issue, which only 2 of my closest friends know about and i ended up telling A as well. On the night of 19th jan, A had fought with her friends, she then saw me not in a good state cuz of my family issues and she became helpless. This is when K told me that A did not leave you for her ex, but because “I am too broken”. “She wanted someone to take care of her and not to take care of someone”. These lines fu**ed me up. My biggest vulnerability had become the reason for the one i wanted, to f**king leave me. That was the last thing i heard and punched the stairs thrice before leaving.

I came home, and just went to sleep. I was very drunk.

The next day i met A at her place so i could get my answers. She told me the exact same things as K and told me that she was at fault for leaving me and shouldve been stronger. I cried a lot, she cried a lot. I shouldve left her then, but A told me she likes me, and i melted.

2nd feb, my birthday. The day i turned 22 also became the day i got hurt the most. I had talked to K as he had come with one of my childhood friends to cut cake. He told me He was very sorry for whatever happend and he did not have the “balls” and “courage in his ass” to tell me that he was seein the girl i loved even after i told him many times that i like her. I let it go, i forgave him and told them that you both can do whatever you want, i shouldnt be bothered. This was my second mistake.

Fastforward a few hours, me and my friends decided to drink alcohol on my birthday at K’s place, one of my friend was talking about a guy who dated his girl and hurt her, this was 5 years ago. K was very drunk and told “lets go beat him up”. We calmed him down and i went down to meet A and my other friends as they wanted to cut a cake for me. I went down, i was already drunk, i cut my cake. And then came K asking where the guy was. I told him to go away, but then he started pushing, i pulled K’s tshirt and saw a bunch of hickies. I became blank and felt a shock in my body. I asked A directly, “were u the one who gave him that” om her face, to which she replied “ no thats not me, why would i do that. Go ask him, its some other girl”. Which i believed after asking her 4 times. Later K started to get more furious. I pulled him nd told him to stop, he told me “ dont touch me” i asked him what if i do, will he hit me? To which he replied “yes i will”, i told him i would hit him back, to which he told “ you dont have the balls”, “teri koi aukat nahi hai” which means that i do not have any respect or those standards to even touch him. I heard this and i just left him and went away, my other friends calmed me down. As i did not want to spoil my birthday, i told K its okay. This is my third mistake. The night went on, K told me that A was the one who gave the hickies to him. After that my night was mostly blur.

The next day i recalled everything, my body felt miserable, and my heart felt in so much pain. I did not talk to A and i did not talk to K for a day. I met A a day later to ask why she lied, to which she told that it happend before 31st jan and it happend only once, this is the sixth lie she told me. I talked it out with her, she told me she still liked but wanted some time to figure things out. I then went to K’s house to meet him. I told him i am hurt about what he did to me with A but i was more hurt about the fact he questioned my character and self-respect. He told me he was very sorry about it. And i let it go. My fourth mistake

Let me tell you a bit about K. He has been my friend since 5th grade, he has seen me grow up. Over the years idk what happend, he developed this habit of reading my chats with other girls when i would pass out. He would unlock my phone and read my chats, when i asked him about it he said, “i have a very bad habit of reading chats”. I told dont do it and i let it go. After a while K started making sexual comments with my ex to each other in front of me when they both knew i was not over her. I told them to stop but it still continued. K once slapped me after getting drunk and told that he had done it becuz he was irritated and was angry, i let it go. He is a very toxic guy, a huge narcissist who only cares about himself. He himself has told A that, “ i am a narcissist, i will only hurt u”. A had a very toxic relation, and she told me that she was attracted to that relation with K as they fought a lot and he made her cry a lot and abused her. But she still forgave him and was attracted to him.

I let this incident go as well. And thats when i started f**king my self up more. A kept telling me she wants to be with me, but she had told K that she likes him and if she backs off not, itll look bad. So this is where i tell both of them “go ahead do whatever you want, its your life”. I told A specifically, that “even if you dont be with me and you choose him, i just want you to be happy.” She told me that she wants to be with me but needs some time to decide things. She told me that because with K she felt only those little moments of happiness, but with me she felt stability. I melted and i kept trying for her, she did not say anything, she told me she doesnt mind but doesnt want me to hurt my self. She kept sweet talking to me, kept telling she cares a lot about me and this that, the usual s**t to say when you try to make someone comfortable with you.

Fast forward a bit, i and A started spending a lot of time together. All of A’s friend hate K and dont want her to be with him, maybe thats why she wants him more? Idk. Me and A spent a lot of time, she told me she was very happy with me and it was peaceful. This s**t continued. On 20th feb, i went to A’s place, we got high and we drank a beer. Things went from watching a movie to something else. The next day she told me she had a lot of fun and it was good and that i should come over the next day too, which is 21st feb night( i am writing this on 22nn feb morning). k had told me on 20th that he will go home early on 21st night as he has work. My mind started thinking. I Asked A if she had told him she was alone and she told yes. I understood that K was going to meet A but A told me there is nothing like that and i am overthinking. This time i genuinely trusted her because of what happend the night before. Today she told me that i cant come over as she has to go to her aunties place. I knew something was up. I let my gut take control. I came back to my apartment and went to A’s block. I saw her at home. I asked her what she was doing. She told me she jus came home and is going to meet K because he has something to talk about. I knew where this was going….

K called her down, i told A that ill wait for her and come over if K was jus gona talk and leave. She told there is no point waiting cause she doesnt know how long itll take. I told her okay and told her i had left. She then told me K was coming over to her place to smoke. He got her a cake, and some beer cans. I could not control my self. A told me not to text her so K could not see, i went near the door and heard them drinking and laughing. I later heard they decided to get high. The exact words were “please K lets go smoke up, ill do whatever you want” to which K told “ whatever? Are you sure” and i think you can figure the rest. They went and smoked up, came back to the hall, and started making out. I love my s**t. I could hear everything through the door. I heard them Kiss, i heard the spanks. I heard the dirty talk. I heard her going down on him. The next words killed me “ did you cm in my mouth”, to which K says “yes” and A says “ew”. And then they laughed. They smoked a cigarette again, talked a bit about me which was not very clear. And then went back to what they were doing. I came to A’s block at 1 am. And i left at 530 am when i could not take it anymore. Every second all i could think was of what they are doing. My body went numb. I was in so much pain, but i did not feel any pain too. I kept cursing my self to believe that girl again. I started to lose my mind. I went down. Smoke a cigarette and jus came home. I did not know what to do or who to talk to, so now i am on reddit, typing this huge ass story which idk who might read. I just needed to talk to someone. I am loosing my mind. I have developed insomnia. I have lost my appetite, i have lost my glow. All i can think is about how those two can betray me again and again and again and it just hurts so much. I really dont know what to do. She just messaged me telling she woke up to go p*e, but in reality she messaged after K had left her place. When she told me K was coming over, she told me not to worry about anything and not think about anything and just go sleep. I am glad i did not go sleep, even if i stood there listening to them, i knew i had to do it to clear out my mind.

I am just lost. I feel hopeless. I feel like my luck with love is just terrible and its all my karma for hurting people in the past. I am Not writing all this so i can get sympathy, i am just trying to vent out to strangers who i dont even know.

Goodnight yall. Take care of yourselves.