Dr. Josh

Damnit Cat, I’m a human not a scratching post!

Whether ’s posts were or not depends largely on how you understand the question. But even if an organization like the ACA ultimately did not decide it was a violation of their minimal standards doesn’t mean you are wrong if you found it violated yours, and we can and should have our own higher standards as well.

’s needs to start with allowing for deeper intimacy with others that isn’t s*xualized.

The title has taken on specific meaning, and appreciating that nuance is important for , , and laypeople.

Your feelings are always valid doesn’t mean your feelings are always right. They’re reflexive, so focus more on what to do with them in the moment than beating yourself up for having them.