Clarissa Today

Women we need to talk...why are men controlling (pimping) you from the jail cell? What you must understand is that whatever got them their in the first place was not your problem...(or was it?). If you are taking money from your check and your children to pay for collect calls, visits, packages, name brand sneakers (what the what they need those for its a dress code ( errbody suppose to wear the same thing lol)Than to top it off while you out doing all of this you get a call and your getting cussed out because you were not home when he called collect, or cuss you out because your broke and can't come to visit, or cuss you out because you spent time somewhere besides the four walls that confine you to sit and watch the phone so you won't get cussed out. This ends up depression and now the children and you are suffering because you don't want to do nothing. This is selfish behavior and stop acting like you don't know it. I have been perusing some inspirational messages from some dynamic women of God on facebook and a few classes that i found I believe can strenghten you. I am going to speak with you one on one. I'm not saying that the man incarcarated is not capable of change, what I'm saying to you is how do you know he is changing to be with you. We as women have to start taking better care of ourselves and making better decisions. I want to get to know you. If you out there inbox me and lets talk. God has designed a plan for you to be bless and live a wholesome life. I talk what I lived and survived through the grace of our heavenly father. I care and I want to be a blessing to you.