TabuTalk

“I try to let go of penetrative s*x as a goal. I spent my younger years learning about foreplay and intimacy as a “means to an end.” Now intimacy, in all forms, is the end. The best way to get there is to listen to my partner’s words, actions, and body throughout s*xual encounters — even if that means stopping s*x in its tracks. That is its own form of intimacy.”

"I thought I was one of the good guys. Then I read the Aziz Ansari story." She told me to stop. I ignored her. It took me years to realize how wrong I was.