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Taking the guesswork out of why men really struggle to understand what the mental load is. Share with your partner or anyone who is struggling with getting their partner on board with this concept!

What Men Almost Always Misunderstand About the Mental Load - My Love Thinks What Men Almost Always Misunderstand About the Mental Load I get the same messages from men over and over again about what I share about…

✨ 5 behaviors that quietly wreck relationships (and most people don’t even realize they’re doing them) ✨

You know that moment when you’re trying to talk, but it feels like your partner is shutting down? Or when every little thing turns into an argument because you’re both feeling unheard? 😩

👉 These patterns don’t just happen—they build over time.

💔 And if they go unchecked, they can make even the strongest relationships feel impossible and lonely.

💡 But here’s the good news: when you see these behaviors, you can start to shift them.

👉 Swipe through to learn 5 common relationship wreckers and what to do instead.

👇 Which one do you notice most in your relationship? Or is there another dynamic that shows up more for you? Drop it in the comments!

And if you want to go deeper, my book A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great S*x breaks down 4 more relationship wreckers—PLUS how to find fairness around the mental load, communicate better, and build a partnership that actually feels like a team. 💛

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How do you show up in your relationship?

👏 When you exhibit maturity in a relationship, you crate a sense of security, predictability, and safety.

✅ When your relationship feels secure, that’s when it really flourishes.

🚧 When your relationship feels insecure, partners exhibit more protective behaviors like defensiveness, distancing, shutting down, and closing off sexually.

👉 If you’re ready to shift your relationship out of a place of distance and protectiveness to finally feeling like you’re on the same page,

My new book, A Better Share: How to Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great S*x, is packed with practical strategies to help you and your partner find a fair way to share the mental load and get your relationship back on track—without nagging, fights, or frustration.

⭐️ Here’s what one early reader had to say:

“This is the best content I’ve read about the mental load. The practical, specific tips for calmly discussing and sharing responsibilities are a game-changer.”

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💭 What would it feel like to be appreciated for all that you do behind the scenes?

💡 There are times that your partner can’t jump in anymore than they currently are (for various reasons).

👏 But aiding in the mental load can also look like acknowledging and appreciating what you (or the one who carries it) do.

🫶 Sometimes it isn’t actually doing more—it’s saying:

“I respect and appreciate what you do. Our family wouldn’t function without you.”

❌ When partners respond to the mental load with statements like:
* “Then just don’t stress about it.”
* “Just do less.”
* “Your standards are too high.”

💔 It’s likely that you’ll feel minimized and devalued. This adds to the load because now you’re managing hurt feelings while still feeling unappreciated.

✨ Consider the formula: OBSERVATION + IMPACT for a meaningful compliment that helps you or your partner feel visible and valued for all they do for your family.

📣 Share this with your partner so they can give you the appreciation you need.

📖 If you haven’t yet had the conversation about the mental load but you’re ready to, my new book will help you have this conversation and find fairness—all without starting a fight.

📘 A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great S*x is packed with practical strategies to help you and your partner find a fair way to share the mental load—without nagging, fights, or frustration.

⭐️ Here’s what one early reader had to say:

“This is the best content I’ve read about the mental load. The practical, specific tips for calmly discussing and sharing responsibilities are a game-changer.”

🔥 Just comment SHARE to preorder your copy today and grab your exclusive thank-you gifts!