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💛 Why Heavy Emotions Hit Us So Hard — The Science Behind It

When we say “life feels unfair” or that our heart feels heavy, it’s not just an expression — there’s real psychology behind it.

🌿 1. Our brains are wired for fairness
Humans have a built-in “fairness detector.” When something painful happens to good, loving people, it creates what psychologists call moral distress — a deep emotional ache triggered by witnessing something that shouldn’t happen.

🫶 2. Empathy makes us feel others’ pain as if it were our own
If you’re the kind of person who feels deeply, your brain’s empathy centers light up when someone you care about is hurting.
This can create physical sensations like heaviness, fatigue, or that tightness in the chest.

🧠 3. The mind tries to make sense of things that have no easy explanation. When life feels unfair, the brain enters “meaning-search mode.” But some events have no immediate answers — and that unresolved search weighs on your emotional system.

💔 4. Caring so much is actually a strength Feeling heavy-hearted doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means your compassion is strong, your loyalty is real, and your heart is wired for connection.

🌟 5. Emotional weight does lift — just not instantly
The same way the body needs time to heal, the heart needs time to process what doesn’t make sense.

Be gentle with yourself during that process.

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DM me if you are interested. The class will probably be next Thursday, and it will be recorded if you can't attend live.

I am going to open up ten seats for the class.

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𝗪𝗲𝗯𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗿: 𝗖𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗲𝘀

Learn what to expect, how to manage symptoms, and when to seek medical help if your child gets the measles, mumps, chicken pox, or whooping cough.

𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞 & 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞:
Tue, Mar 31
2:00 PM - 3:00 PM EDT

𝐂𝐨𝐬𝐭:
$25

𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧:
Online event

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Coming soon!

I am preparing a webinar on how to be prepared for childhood illnesses.

Dr. Phillips and Amy on Losing Weight the RIGHT way!

Stephanie Phillips, DO owner of Front Porch Family Medicine and Amy Jankowski Naturopath and owner of Pursuing Wellness discuss healthy weight loss with peptides and focusing on correct nutrition for losing weight the healthy way.

Dr. Phillips and Amy on Losing Weight the RIGHT way! Stephanie Phillips, DO owner of Front Porch Family Medicine and Amy Jankowski Naturopath and owner of Pursuing Wellness discuss healthy weight loss with pept...

A prospective single-cohort study published in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health (2023) investigated the efficacy of oral N-acetylcysteine (NAC) in women with endometriosis. The study included 120 patients aged 18–45 years who received NAC 600 mg three times daily for three consecutive days per week over a three-month period. Results showed significant improvements in endometriosis-related pain symptoms, including dysmenorrhea, dyspareunia, and chronic pelvic pain, as measured by Visual Analog Scale (VAS) scores. The use of NSAIDs significantly decreased, and there was a meaningful reduction in the average size of ovarian endometriomas as well as serum Ca125 levels, suggesting reduced inflammatory activity.

Additionally, among the 52 women who expressed a desire for pregnancy, 39 achieved spontaneous conception within six months of initiating NAC therapy, and 6 conceived through assisted reproductive techniques. These findings indicate that NAC’s antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties may contribute to improved fertility outcomes, possibly by enhancing oocyte quality and reducing oxidative stress. Overall, the study suggests that NAC may serve as a safe and effective non-hormonal therapeutic option for managing pain, reducing lesion size, lowering Ca125 levels, and supporting fertility in women with endometriosis.

PMCID: PMC10048621 PMID: 36981595

A randomized controlled trial 👨‍🔬 published by the National Institutes of Health confirms that 𝐚 𝐦𝐢𝐱𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐞 ☕ 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 🍯𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐨𝐢𝐝 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 💊in treating persistent post-infectious cough (PPC). The mixture works synergistically to soothe irritated throat mucosa and reduce cough severity significantly better than steroids or a placebo, making it a safe, natural alternative.

🕵️ 𝐒𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐲 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬: In a study, participants with persistent coughs lasting over 3 weeks were divided into groups. The coffee ☕ and honey 🍯 group saw their cough scores drop from 2.9 to 0.2, while the steroid group (prednisolone) only saw a reduction from 3.0 to 2.4. 😷

🕵️ 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐭 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬: The combination works due to the synergistic effects of honey 🍯 and coffee☕ . Honey repairs the damaged, irritated mucosa of the throat (mucosal desquamation) while potentially acting as an antiviral agent.

🕵️ 𝐄𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬: The mixture proved to be a superior, safe, and efficient treatment for post-infectious cough outperforming those treated with prednisolone.

‼️ 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞: This is generally recommended for adults with a lingering cough after an infection. For children under 1 year old 👶, honey should never be given due to the risk of botulism.

The information on this page is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6442828/

I use homeopathy for my family, my clients, or myself daily. I have seen great success for things such as: temper tantrums in children, depression, concussions, migraines, PMS, insomnia, hot flashes, food poisoning, and even copperhead snake bites.

Among 108 infants in India, those receiving homeopathic care experienced significantly fewer sick days, fewer illness episodes—particularly respiratory infections—required fewer antibiotics, and incurred lower treatment costs than those in conventional care. Children in the homeopathic group were also taller, though not heavier, over the study period.

Overall, the findings suggest that homeopathy, integrated with conventional medicine for safety, may be a safe, effective, and cost-efficient primary care approach in the first two years of life.

Read the study here:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39425766/