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Emotional validation means accepting, empathizing, and welcoming your child’s emotions without judgment. It helps build emotional intelligence and fosters a deeper bond of trust. It also shows your child that their emotions, even the difficult ones, are valid and manageable.

Why is emotional validation important? When children feel validated, they are more likely to express themselves openly, which reduces emotional outbursts and increases their ability to cope with stress. It strengthens their self-esteem and teaches them how to navigate their feelings in a healthy way.

So, next time your child is having a big emotion, pause and try these key strategies:

→ Be present
→ Be curious and ask questions
→ Encourage self-expression
→ Give them space to lean into their feelings
→ Make good eye contact
→ Always prioritize connection

How can you validate your child’s emotions today?

It can be hard for us as parents to know how to help kids navigate major life changes. But these changes and transitions are a part of life for everyone. Things like moving houses, the death of loved ones, divorce, changing schools, or welcoming a new baby to the family, can all be hugely stressful for kids.

And since their major life changes are often pretty major for us parents too, we often have no idea how to best help our kids through them. But with a little bit of support from you, you can get through these difficult periods.

Today we are sharing some powerful tips to help your kid handle big life transitions and changes.

“It is especially important for us to realize how much our reactions affect the child’s feelings. If we become upset … we increase the youngster’s sense of failure, of wrongdoing, his/her sense of shame and fear. To the extent that we remain calm and cheerful and can accept and explain the situation as regrettable and to be avoided when possible but a natural part of growing up, we lessen the child’s fear and reinforce his/her feeling of his/her own worth.” -Switzer and Hirchberg