Henry Rojas

When our natural gifts (I.e., giver, organizer, comic, romantic, communicator, mediator, etc.) that are beautiful, become obsessions of doing and feeling for controlling what we desire. Check out this quote from Geneen Roth,

"If we believe that we don't deserve and therefore cannot give appreciation, respect, and tenderness to ourselves, then we will humiliate ourselves in the process. We give for the purpose of receiving. We do things for the effect they will have. We try to manipulate or connive or control others into giving to us whatever we believe we cannot give ourselves."

Be free! And discover what you aren't giving yourself that you are expecting others and stuff to give you.