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One of the most common mistakes we see families make:

Building a college list entirely around rankings.

Not because rankings are useless. But because a list built only on rankings tells you almost nothing about where a student will actually thrive.

We have watched students get into their "dream school" by every external measure and struggle. And we have watched students choose a school nobody at their high school had heard of and absolutely come alive there.

The fit question is harder than the ranking question. It requires knowing your student well enough to ask: What environment do they need to grow? What size? What kind of community? What opportunities matter most to them specifically?

Rankings can be a starting point. They should never be the whole conversation.

For the parents and educators here: what do you think families underweight most when building a college list?

We see the same few things come up again and again. Curious what you're observing.

Parents, what does the college conversation look like in your house right now?

Are you and your student on the same page? Completely different pages? Somewhere in between?

We ask because this dynamic is something almost every family navigates differently, and there's a lot of wisdom in this community.

Tell us what you're seeing at home.

If you are considering working with a college counselor, ask these five questions before you decide:

1. How do you build a college list?
A strong answer involves getting to know the student first. A weak answer starts with rankings.

2. How do you approach the essay?
A strong answer is about helping the student find their own voice. A weak answer is about editing.

3. What does your communication look like throughout the process?
A strong answer is specific. A weak answer is vague about availability.

4. How do you handle a student who is resistant or disengaged?
A strong answer shows they have done this before. A weak answer assumes the student will just cooperate.

5. What happens after the applications go in?
A strong answer covers financial aid, decisions, and the final choice. A weak answer stops at submission.

The right counselor will have clear, confident answers to all five.

Save this before your next conversation.