Mary Rufai

Have we been lied to...

Marry who you love.....!

I will be giving you the 7CODES OF GREATNESS.

One key after another for 7days.

NO1. WHO YOU MARRY.

This is the major reason why you will live a fulfilling life or unfulfilled life.
Its the reason why you will be great in Life or find it difficult becoming great.

Never marry for love, love is the cheapest and easiest thing to get and also the most abused.

A man once said, "in marriage, it's about what I will do for my spouse, not the other way around,"
Marry who you have something to do/add/flavour in their life.

Beauty surely will fade, men are constantly cheating on hips, as* and b**bs...

Marry a woman or a man that fulfills your purpose, that understands your vision and will propel your flywheel to greater height.

There is what they call propensity to develope, people determine how fast you develope, and it takes a visionary spouse to give you the freedom, liberty or environment to aid your momentum to hyper growth without fear of being left behind.

Just as in the olden days, marriages were fixed for purpose, love was found in greatness and compliments.
Marriages were matched made. Kingdoms were preserved through marriages and same way Kingdoms, Visions and wealth (at large) should also be preserved in our time through marriages.

This is not a bandwagon thing, everyone mustn't approve your partner, look deeper, think of your life, your children, your future and your purpose.

If you get it wrong here, I guess it will take the heavenly or a strong will to drive on to greatness.

💖 Looking to put a smile on that special girl's face? Here are a few tips on how to make her heart skip a beat! 💃🥰

1️⃣ Show your appreciation: Small gestures can go a long way. Take the time to compliment her, appreciate her efforts, and let her know how much she means to you. A little appreciation can light up her day!

2️⃣ Listen and engage: Pay attention when she talks and show genuine interest. Engage in meaningful conversations that let her know her thoughts and feelings matter to you. It's the little things that make her feel heard and valued.

3️⃣ Surprise her: Surprise her with her favorite treat, flowers, or plan a spontaneous date night. Thoughtful surprises show her you care and are willing to go the extra mile to make her happy.

4️⃣ Support her dreams: Encourage her pursuits and cheer her on every step of the way. Let her know that you believe in her and that you're there to support her dreams and aspirations. Your unwavering support means the world to her.

5️⃣ Quality time: Make time for shared experiences and create lasting memories together. Plan fun activities, outings, or simply enjoy a cozy night in. Quality time spent together strengthens your bond and reminds her how much she means to you.

Remember, every girl is unique, and what makes her happy may vary. It's the effort and sincerity behind your actions that make the difference. So, go ahead and spread those smiles! 😊❤️

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Dear Ladies.....

He won’t use condoms, you use pills😢. why? Because he wants it natural?
( Think of ovarian cancer and infertility ).🤔

He gets you pregnant, you have aborted like 5 times 😢 why? Because he is not ready.🙄 Grow up.

He is tired of natural place for copulation, He moves to your ass saying its tighter,😋 then you begin to leak and smell.😢 why? because you want to please and not loose him🤔 . Grow up.

You have been wearing his engagement ring for close to 4yrs🤔, He is not wearing any.. why? because he has promised you marriage🙄 Grow up.

My sister,
You dress half naked thinking you look sexy and hot, He isn’t complaining but he has more cloths on. Don’t be surprised when he takes a more decent girl home🙆. GROW UP LADY.

A guy dumps you, you wanna pay him back and all you could do is to sleep with his friend😭?
and you think this is pay back🤔?
MY SISTER GROW UP

You think getting pregnant for him will make him marry you🙄? GROW UP GIRL

You will become a single mama with No Job,😢 No means of feeding your Baby and yourself so, you leave junior with Grandma and you go back to the Hustling field, then you begin to say, "MEN Are Wicked!"🙄
Whose fault?
Please ladies, be wise!
You know you deserve better than this.
Be Real, Be Wise..