Help Find My Cat

Exactly what I need 🏡🖤🍃🪴🏠

It took me a long time to learn this lesson. It is the Wisdom of the Enneagram that helped me to see how addicted I was thinking that I must make everyone better... I was so wrong... so wrong...

"I call them “The Suggesters.” They’re the people in your personal life who constantly tell you what you ‘should’ do to improve it. They do this even if you haven’t asked for help, even if you like where your life is. They even do this after you tell them that their constant suggestions make you feel like they don’t accept you as you are. When asked why they continue, they tell you they are doing it because they care about you. Because you deserve something better. And sometimes that’s true. But sometimes you get the feeling that it’s not about you at all. That it’s entirely about them. And that’s true, too. Sometimes it’s just a conditioned thing—they are doing what they were taught to do. Sometimes it’s a survival pattern—they are living out a role that saved them in childhood. Sometimes it’s a control thing—they simply love to dominate others. Sometimes it’s a hiding game—by focusing on what needs improvement in your life, they don’t have to face what needs improvement in theirs. Sometimes it’s an ego thing—they need you to look or live a certain way, so they can feel better on your arm. And sometimes it’s a vicarious thing—they have a tendency to live their lives through others. They haven’t been able to fulfill their promise, so they push you to fulfill yours. They want you to become more successful so they can feel more successful. Whatever it is, beware “The Suggesters.” They don’t always have your best interests at heart."
~Jeff Brown~

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Archaeology for the Woman's Soul

I’ve year since we lost him 😞

Please bring him Home