Suzy Benson Coaching

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Announcing A.P.E.'s next adventure for teens and young adults. Join me in the summer of 2024 for our next expedition. Parents are welcome too. Sign up for a webinar to learn more!

Have a teen who might be interested in developing their leadership and getting service hours? Parents are welcome on this journey too. I would appreciate a share from my collegues!

Teens: Unlock your dreams of Africa, leadership, service, and adventure!
Ever imagine immersing yourself in the wonders of Africa while evolving into a more capable leader and igniting positive change through service?
Look no further than EmpowerEducation.world and African Promise Expeditions. Our upcoming informational meeting is your gateway to discovering the transformative journey that awaits you in Uganda.
Gain invaluable service hours that pave the way to a fulfilled future, foster leadership skills that will set you apart, and relish the thrill of a safari experience. Your adventure goes beyond exploration – it's a chance to impact young lives like your own.
Join us this Sunday at 6:30 PST and embark on a path that promises personal growth, unforgettable experiences, and the power to make a difference.
Parents are welcome to join this trip too! Register now, space is limited.

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https://simplifiedcoach.learnworlds.com/course/dare-to-lead
Hello Everyone! I am teaching a 2 hour DTL workshop on Saturday. Let me know if you are interested!

Dare to Lead, 2 Hour Course, May 1st, 9:30 am PST In this workshop you will learn how to: • Determine your call to courage as a leader. • Define vulnerability as uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure. • Understand the role of courage and vulnerability in daring leadership. • Challenge old definitions and dispel the myths surrounding the...

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For those who are interested I did a Podcast with Character Strong. It's a short 15 minute listen and talks about shame, vulnerability, and empathy when talking about race. My experience is that NO ONE wants to believe they are racist, or heaven forbid be accused of being racist. When this happens our first emotion is often SHAME and when shame shows up defensiveness is usually our first go to. Shame can quickly shut us down and we are less likely to take risks such as talking about race. The golden ticket out is empathy. Empathy for ourselves when we make mistakes AND empathy for BIPOC who tell us their lived experiences. If someone tells you that you stepped on their toe and it hurts, believe them. If you are the one that stepped on the toe, be kind to yourself. Most of us are trying hard to learn and do better!

‎The CharacterStrong Podcast: Vulnerability, Shame And Empathy When Talking About Race - Suzy Benson on Apple Podcasts ‎Show The CharacterStrong Podcast, Ep Vulnerability, Shame And Empathy When Talking About Race - Suzy Benson - Jan 2, 2021

Just because we live in a virtual world, doesn't mean we don't need to connect! Ask me about the workshop I am offering on vulnerability, featuring Brene' Brown's Dare to Lead official curriculum.

Hold people accountable for racism
“That language is unacceptable. You can’t talk that way in front of me or my kids. If you continue to do that, then we can’t be around you.” Wise words by Brene' Brown.

Last week I delivered a training that included thinking of examples of Systemic Racism. I did some research and came up with this list. Can you think of any other examples?
• Housing (gentrification)
• Distribution of wealth
• Education
• Employment
• Red lining
• Criminal justice, health care,
• Having to provide your own car for a driving test, but needing a license to buy a car
• College entrance exams,
• Stop and Frisk policing strategies
• The unconscious bias in officers leads them to racially profile
• Loss of right to vote for felons
• Schools not allowing corn-rows or dreadlocks,
• Professional dress standards (black women are often encouraged to make their hair look more white and straight)
• BMI standards used to determine health and cost of life insurance. The body type used for the basis is white and male
• Leaders in power
• ‘Proper’ English. Anglo-Saxon English is considered the standard for school, testing, etc. Black children who speak AAE/Black English and don’t code switch well in early education are often labeled as having lower intelligence
• 3 strikes you’re out,
• Unequal sentences for crack cocaine/cocaine
Thanks Lawrence Garrett for some of these ideas!