Open Table Church

Self-Control
May 24, 2026
Romans 8:1-4

When we talk about self-control, our instinct is to focus on the power of our own will. “I just need to try harder!” we tell ourselves, white-knuckling our way through whatever struggle we face. But if sheer willpower is what the author of Galatians had in mind, we're in big trouble. This trait isn't labeled the fruit of our will—it's the fruit of the Spirit. So, how do we practice a version of self-control that relies on God's strength instead of our own?

What is one area of your life where you feel like you have great self-control?
When the text talks about "no condemnation," what do you think that really means? Does a lack of condemnation mean there are no consequences or punishments for our actions?

Paul contrasts "the law of the Spirit of life" with "the law of sin and death." What do you think are three major differences between living under these two systems?

If Jesus already cleared the way for us to live under the law of the Spirit, why do we keep insisting on trying to live under the law of sin and death?

What is one area of your life where you’ve been approaching self-control out of fear or condemnation, and how can you begin approaching it from a posture of grace?