J. Ashar

It’s wild to see the journey of becoming a mother unfold through these snapshots.

Kristina had asked me if men could get pregnant, would I go through it. The answer is… absolutely not!

I am thankful to have a partner who sacrificed so much to give me a healthy child, but I am mostly thankful that it’s physically impossible for men to push out a baby through their pen*ses.

Shout out to all the mamas out there. You’re amazing. 🖤

Bubble Tea Pug
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What will the pug do next? 🫣

Kristina, we have been on this rollercoaster ride of a relationship for the past 13-years. We have experienced the very best and the very worst together. We have been able to overcome multiple obstacles in our lives because we truly understand each other.

I am absolute chaos, and you are ultimate structure. You have given me lots of space to explore life in my own chaotic way, and you have kept me safe. I love you because you are my balance. I am not a perfect man, and I have so many flaws. You have stuck by my side through the ups-and-the-downs.

I have so much fun with you, and I love our relationship. When I worked in the field as a geoscientist for 3-years surviving in the Arctic and floating in the middle of the ocean, it was always our dream to have a life where we could actually be together. Now, we wake up every morning with Babu the pug’s dense body pushed up against us as he farts and snores.

I vow to take care of you until my last breath on Earth, no matter what happens in life. I would do anything for you. I do not need a ring or a fancy wedding to symbolize my love for you. You know this. I am excited for our future together. I have visions of us celebrating birthdays at Benihana with our future children, and I cannot wait to turn this into reality.

July 16th, 2022