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Grief made me brave:
It encouraged me to face my mortality.

Grief made me soft:
It broke me open and smoothed out my rough edges.

Grief made me go inward:
It inspired a new level of introspection.

Grief made me walk away:
From people, places, and situations that drained me.

Grief made me take care of myself:
I am here, and I am worth it.

Grief made me remember:
That life was mine to create.

Grief made me honor all of my humanity:
That loss is just as important a part of life as gain.

Grief made me an entrepreneur:
I was no longer willing to be in work environments that expected the world and gave little in return.

Grief made me grateful.
First, it broke my heart, and then it filled in the cracks with gratitude.

If you want and are willing to explore how grief can transform your life and bring healing, I invite you to send me a DM or book a consultation from the link on my page.

What do you want to do with your grief? We get to answer this question together.

When my sister was in hospice, I tried to manipulate time.

I met with the powers that be at my job to create a schedule where I would work 10 hours a day instead of 8 to condense my work week and get consecutive days with her instead of hours.

Even though I had a laptop and could work from anywhere, that wasn’t an option.

The first week of my new schedule, my sister’s husband called me and told me it was time. At this point, her cancer made its tour, going from breast to lung, to brain, to spinal cord fluid.

Her body was clocking out.

I got up from my desk and, as my voice shook, told the office I was leaving.

It was time.

My brother-in-law and boss deliberately slowed down their speech to articulate that I had to take my time making the three-hour drive to get to her.

I understood that no matter how slow or fast I went, there would never be enough time when my sister was dying at forty-two.

And I knew no job was ever going to take precedence over my humanity, ever.

Because I am a human first before anything.

My work now requires my humanness to be front and center. I help my clients prioritize their finite time and spend it confidently in places they choose.

And I’m having the time of my life doing it.

https://calendly.com/feltwrite/grief-coaching-consultation?back=1&month=2023-11

Your life is happening right now.

What’s the worst thing that can happen if you reach out for a virtual coffee?

Or book that consultation to expedite whatever results you are looking to create.

What if you asked your boss for that long overdue promotion?

What if you proudly marketed yourself more and positioned yourself as an expert?

Or you finally started the job search because you are so done with your current place of work.

Whatever the action you are resisting is because you are afraid of rejection coupled with fear of change.

What if you completely revamped your relationship to the word no.

And that the key to having anything you want is strengthening and expanding your no tolerance.

What if you were as bold as the folks sliding into your DMs unsolicited to sell you stuff?

There are people in the world right now who know a lot less than you, and yet it's not holding them back one iota from going after what they want.

There is no such thing as the right time.

There is only right now.

And I can’t wait to hear all about what you do! https://calendly.com/feltwrite

Twenty years ago, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind was released.

Have you seen it?

It’s so good.

Jim Carey and Kate Winslet play this couple who breaks up.

She decides to have this mind-altering procedure done where she forgets all her memories of him.

He finds out she’s doing this and decides to do the same.

However, during it, he changes his mind because he starts to relive the good memories, and he doesn’t want to forget her.

A reminder: The sweet is never as sweet without the sour. (from another movie, can you name it?)

I collaborate with my clients to have an Eternal Rainbow of the Resilient Mind.

The primary emotion I focus on is grief because when you can healthily feel, process, release, heal, and repeat with grief, you can do it with any emotion.

You get to learn and repurpose your pain without wishing it away.

And do something with it.

For me, it was starting felt Write

We do this work for a minimum of six months.

For an average lifespan of 77 years, that's less than 1% of your time here focused on emotional health and management.

The ROI on that is immeasurable! The limit does not exist! (last movie reference, I promise)

Besides feeling better overall, you build self-trust, gain confidence, and let go of any coulda, woulda, shoulda.

It's an enlightening and empowering place to be.

If you’ve been thinking about getting a coach because you’re tired of doing the same thing and not getting the desired result, book a consult here: https://calendly.com/feltwrite/grief-coaching-consultation?back=1&month=2023-11

We spend this time getting to know each other, asking and answering questions, and seeing if we are a good fit to work together.

See you soon. 💚