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God been putting this on my heart for YEARS, YEARS YEARS and I can’t ignore it no more.

I’m officially stepping into my purpose and starting a nonprofit called
“Breaking the Cycle Youth Assistance.”

This ain’t talk. This is WORK.

I’m launching a 6-MONTH PERSONAL MENTORSHIP PROGRAM (on the side) with one female and one male between the ages of 18-25 who feel lost, stuck, or need real direction in life. (I want to show the people what I’m all about)

💰 Credit
💳 Financial literacy
🧠 Life skills
💯 Real guidance from somebody who lived it

This is also for the ones who:
• Struggle with low self-esteem
• Don’t believe in themselves
• Are shy or scared to come out their shell
• Deal with trust issues
• Have experienced some type of trauma and need someone to talk to
• Feel more comfortable opening up to someone outside their circle who won’t judge them
• Just need somebody to talk to
• Just need that extra push because they feel like nobody believes in them

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But listen… I’m not taking everybody.

I’m starting with ONLY 2
👉 1 male
👉 1 female

And I’m mentoring them PERSONALLY.

⚠️ A life can change in 6 months… BUT ONLY IF YOU SERIOUS.
I don’t want lazy. I don’t want excuses.
I want someone READY for change.

👉 If you know someone or interested yourself, DROP THEIR NAME or INBOX ME.
I’m putting all names in the wheel of names and whoever gets picked, I’m locking in with them for 6 months. (I’m going live when I spin the wheel)

📅 Mentorship officially starts next month, but before we begin, I want to sit down and talk with the two selected individuals personally so I can get to know them and understand where they are in life.

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NOW COMMUNITY… I NEED Y’ALL 🤝

I can give them the knowledge. I can lead them in the right direction.
But when it comes to the materials, I can’t do it alone—that’s why I’m asking for help.

I don’t care if it’s used… as long as it works. 💯

If you got anything sitting around collecting dust, DONATE IT.
We building futures over here.

I’m looking for:
• 💻 Laptops (working)
• 🖨️ Fast printer (high volume) ink
• 📄 Printing paper
• 📁 Folders
• ✏️ Pens & pencils
• 🎨 Sketch pads / paint supplies
• Markers


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ABOUT THE NONPROFIT

This nonprofit organization is organized exclusively for charitable and educational purposes. The purpose of the organization is to provide mentorship, life coaching, and supportive services to youth and young adults ages 15–25.

The organization focuses on personal development, trauma-informed coaching, financial literacy, credit education, employment readiness, and life skills training.

Our mission is to empower individuals to break generational cycles, build healthy relationships, develop leadership skills, and become productive, self-sufficient members of society.

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This ain’t just a program… this is PURPOSE.
God took care of me… now it’s my turn to take care of others.

Let’s stop talking about change…
and actually be the reason it happens. 💯🔥

Let’s break generational curses.

Let’s be honest…
Some of us grew up in homes where apology didn’t exist.

Not one “I was wrong.”
Not one “You didn’t deserve that.”
Not one “Come here, let’s talk.”

Nothing.

Just adults who hurt you… and acted like it never happened.
Adults who demanded respect but never gave any.
Adults who confused fear with discipline and silence with strength.

And we didn’t realize how damaging that was until we became adults who:

• Don’t believe we deserve softness
• Apologize for everything, even breathing
• Think mistakes make us unworthy
• Fight battles silently because “no one cares anyway”

Because let’s call it what it is:

Growing up without apology is emotional neglect.
It is trauma.
It is abandonment in disguise.

And no — our parents weren’t monsters.
They were conditioned.
Conditioned to believe apology makes you weak.
Conditioned to believe accountability is disrespect.
Conditioned to believe “if you apologize, the child will run you.”

So instead of repairing the damage they caused…
they acted like it didn’t exist.

But WE carried it.
WE grew up emotionally starving.
WE lived decades believing our pain was “dramatic,” “too much,” or “not important.”

Here’s the savage truth:

When your parents never apologize, you learn to normalize pain that should’ve never been yours.
You learn to perform strength while breaking inside.
You learn to swallow hurt until it poisons your adulthood.

And then you grow up wondering why:

• You shut down when someone raises their voice
• You panic when you disappoint someone
• You feel guilty for having emotions
• You cling to people who don’t treat you right
• You mistake fear for love and chaos for normal

Because no one ever repaired with you —
so you never learned repair.
You learned survival.

But here’s the shift:

You see the truth now.
Your parents didn’t.

They weren’t given emotional safety.
No one apologized to them.
No one taught them softness, repair, or accountability.
No one taught them connection.

They passed down brokenness because that’s all they had.

Which means your awareness is not rebellion —
it is divine intervention.

And here’s the savage part:

If you don’t heal this,
you will accidentally reproduce the same emotional damage you swear you hate.

You will:

• Silence your child when they cry
• Use your hurt instead of your heart
• Punish instead of communicate
• Punish your partner instead of repairing
• Treat apology as weakness
• Raise a child who fears you, not loves you

Not because you’re cruel —
but because no one taught you better.

That ends with you.
This is where the curse breaks.

This is why healing is mandatory.
This is why awareness is holy work.
This is why YOU — the awakened one — are the cycle breaker.

Your children deserve repair.
They deserve apology.
They deserve emotional safety.
They deserve a parent whose love is healthy, not heavy.

The cycle didn’t start with you…
but it WILL end with you.

If this hit your soul, breathe. You felt that for a reason.

Ladies and gentlemen, if you got grown kids or young adults out here dating, stop teaching them how to be toxic. Stop teaching them that ignoring somebody, getting even, or playing them back is how you win in a relationship. That ain’t love, that’s pain you passing down.

Be real enough to tell your kids where you messed up. Tell them, “Yeah, I stayed when I should’ve left,” or “I left when I should’ve tried harder,” or “I let my pride ruin something real.” Don’t act perfect, ‘cause they seen your struggles anyway. Teach them what you learned from your hurt.

Don’t raise your daughters to think using somebody for money is power. Don’t raise your sons to think being cold-hearted or emotionless makes them a man. That’s how this toxic cycle keeps spinning. Teach them how to love with sense, not just feelings.

And let’s be honest — stop telling your kids “just leave” every time things get hard. Tell them it’s okay to start over if they need to, but don’t tell them to give up every time they argue. Relationships gone have rough patches, that’s life. But there’s a difference between fixing something and forcing something. Too many people out here catching STDs, having kids with the wrong people, or jumping from bed to bed ‘cause they ain’t healed from the last person.

One thing I always tell mine — if you wanna know if your relationship really got a future, look at what y’all doing together. Is y’all building? Investing? Planning for something bigger? Or is it just vibes, s*x, and scrolling? ‘Cause if it’s just that, it’s going nowhere fast. Real love comes with vision and teamwork.

And don’t just talk about breaking generational curses — actually do it. Stop repeating the same patterns your mama and daddy did. Heal that pain so your kids don’t gotta grow up thinking dysfunction is normal.

Moral of the story: Stop raising your kids to be petty, raise them to have peace. Stop showing them how to survive love, and show them how to build in love. Generational curses don’t break with prayer alone — they break when you get real about your flaws, hold yourself accountable, and teach your kids what real love and growth look like!!