Walk With You

You are not alone. Early grief support is important for EVERYONE.

📣We're now accepting sponsors for
the 2026 Walk With You 5K on Saturday, September 19 at Water Works Park!

This family-friendly event raises vital funds to support families experiencing child loss. Sponsorship is a meaningful way to support grieving families and connect with the community.

Interested? Tap the link in bio or email us at [email protected] to get started.

Thank you Thrivent, the Iowa Cubs, and all who came out to Principal Park to support Walk With You on Friday evening. ⚾ It was a beautiful evening for baseball and community!

Honoring your child’s birthday every year after they die can bring a complicated mix of love, grief, pressure, and uncertainty.

In the early years, you may feel confident in what they would have loved, such as the theme he’d pick, the cake she’d ask for, the toys he’d want from grandma. But as time passes, many grieving parents quietly wrestle with new questions:
Would he still love dinosaurs? Would she still wear pink? Who would she be becoming now?

There can be so much pressure to “get it right.” To make the day meaningful enough. Big enough. Or maybe small enough to survive emotionally. You may wonder how to invite others into the day without making them feel obligated, while also fearing what it would feel like if no one showed up.

The truth is: there is no correct way to honor your child. A birthday can be a large event every year with family and friends. It can also be a deeply private moment shared with your immediate family. What’s important to remember is that whatever plans you may make or traditions you may start, give yourself permission to pivot at the last second. Hold your plans loosely. Grief isn’t ordered; there is no way to predict how you may feel that day or what your capacity will look like.

A few tangible ideas:
- Pick a theme each year. This theme can be the same as what they loved when they died, even if it’s now 20 years later! This theme can also be a guess based on what age your child would be now. Perhaps you invite others into voting on what the theme should be every year.
- Pick a nonprofit to collect toys or books or donations to give to in honor of your child.
- Create goodie bags to hand to your child’s class each year. Ask your child’s classmates for input.
- Light a candle, get a cupcake, release balloons, drop off flowers at the cemetery, unplug from social media, lay in bed, go for a bike ride, attend a concert, have a picnic…there are truly so many beautiful ways to honor your child’s memory, big or small.