a better monday

We took the Sunday Scaries quiz ourselves. Amanda’s archetype is in.

Turns out: building the quiz does not make you immune to the quiz.

Amanda’s archetype is the Prover. The short version — the bar keeps moving. Nothing is ever quite enough, and the second Sunday hits, everything unfinished can come barreling back in at once. She goes quiet and grumpy, sometimes snappy. And when she tries to hold it in, it grows.

You can probably tell if you know someone like this.

We’re curious — if you and a partner or close colleague both take the quiz, what are your archetypes? How do they show up together? We have stories about that. More coming.

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👇 Drop your archetype in the comments.

If you’re a woman at work, you’re already doing this math. Part 2.

This one’s for the moment someone repeats your idea and gets the response you didn’t.

What to say:
→ “”I’m glad that’s resonating — that’s exactly what I was getting to earlier. Let me build on that for a moment.””

You’re just bringing it back around without a blowup or accusation.

And sometimes you do all the math and the answer is: it’s not worth it right now. Trust what you’re seeing and read the room.

You are not the problem. You have never been the problem. The problem is that you’re expected to do advanced calculus while also just trying to do your job.

Save this. Practice it until it’s automatic.

What’s the hardest version of this math you’ve had to do?

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