Unscripted Relationships
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Do you have an image in your brain of what ideal polyamory looks like?
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Maybe you do, but you’re not aware of it yet. Or maybe you know that you think you absolutely have to feel compersion to be truly polyamorous (spoiler...this is not true).
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Years ago, I was told that I was actually monogamous because I struggled with feelings of jealousy. I thank my stubborn soul that I called bu****it because MANY people struggle with polyamory just as much as they want it.
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So take your time. Be introspective. Learn about yourself and tell others what you learn. Be effing compassionate - your way also is not the best way.
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10/27/2020
The Unscripted Syllabus is BACK!🤩
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Who remembers my syllabi? Which was your favorite?
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Starting in November, I will be sending out monthly syllabi, each focused on a specific topic. Since I haven’t created one in a hot minute, I thought I’d start foundationally: Open Relationship Basics.
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The syllabus will include free resources to help you learn about open relationships.
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To get it, sign up for my newsletter by clicking the link in my bio.
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10/22/2020
Today marks 12 years with this guy🖤
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It’s been 12 years since I said, “Hey, I want to try an open relationship,” (I didn’t know the word “polyamorous” at that time), and he was like, “Cool, let’s do it.”
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We’ve been through 12 years, our 20s and 30s, buying and co-owning a gym, a few degrees, what feels like a million jobs, LOTS of handstands, countless moves, at least one epic haircut, getting the best cat in all the world, love and loss, and so much growth.
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My relationship with Ryan has taught me how to be with someone as they grow and change and to witness them with awe and encouragement.
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There’s still so much ahead of us, and I look forward to continuing to be your biggest fan .
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NRE is not a universally positive experience!
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Falling in love or having s*x with someone for the first time is generally acknowledged with excitement and positive thrill. However, for some people, it feels like an anxious hell.
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And often the people who do not feel ultra excited about NRE receive the message that something is wrong with them. That only adds to the suckiness of it.
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I’m here to tell you that if you don’t get all excited for NRE, you’re in good company. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you interpret the sensations in your body. And your feelings are valid AF.
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Today’s been a rough day - seemingly for everyone. If it’s been rough for you, I hope you’re taking care of yourself and hydrating.
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I am taking care of myself by looking at old pictures and videos that make me happy. This one is from 3 or 4 years ago, when Leah came to Denver for a visit. We decided to try Bloody Mary shots with oysters...and they were rough in a different way.😂
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Leah is a person of incredible importance in my life, and I am grateful for her everyday. She is the funniest woman I’ve ever met, she’s honest and whip smart and I just feel so lucky to be someone she yells WELL CHECK at when I need it. I love her so much!
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I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again: one of the things I am most grateful for about my experience in open relationships is the deconstruction of the relationship type hierarchy. My commitments and loved ones aren’t only people I’m in romantic relationships with - my chosen family is a mix of friends, lovers, and others.
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