Saylor Quinn

How somebody i cracked first night gon say im easy?? Mf we easy😂. We did it together tf

Babymamas be so mad when they bdss have another baby 💁🏻

Kids notice who shows up.
Who calls.
Who keeps promises.
You don’t need to trash talk an absent parent.
Time exposes everything.

Her man put hands on hêr.
She called her Gäy home boys .
They showed up FAST.
And baby… it was a SHOW. 😳

Nobody talks about how lonely motherhood is when the father is alive but absent.
Not dead.
Not sick.
Just choosing not to show up.
That mess does something to your spirit.

This made my stomach turn because I lived it.

I can’t lie, it hurt different watching my baby daddy show up for his new family like he got a fresh start.
Matching pictures, Big smiles, Posting her kids like “my babies.”
Meanwhile, our child waiting on a call back.
Waiting on a visit that don’t happen.
Waiting on help that always got an excuse attached to it.
I’m not jealous.
I’m disgusted.
Because how you got love for everybody’s kids but your own feels like a burden?
I wanna know.
Do y’all think men like this really change, or they just change the woman they punish¿

My baby daddy threw the biggest fit when i started dating my husband and introduced him to my son. Like he didn't bring girls around him left and right. His girlfriend thought she could get cute with me a few years ago and tell me i was a bad mom for not letting him see my son when he CHOSE to not come around for months on end. He CHOSE to promise him he would come see him and then flake without ever telling me he wasn't coming, knowing it made my son sad. and when my son started calling my husband dad, he got extremely pi**ed off and lashed out. i literally ended up having to tell him he probably wouldn't be calling my husband dad if you were a more present one. You don't get that title when you call once a month, ask about your child maybe once a week, and only visit your child during your court appointed times.
I swear these men love the "Dad" label but hate being a parent when it comes to the hard stuff.

My baby daddy got a new girlfriend and all of a sudden the word “co-parenting” turned into “group project.”
She started saying “we” a lot.
“We decided.”
“We think.”
“We feel.”
Which is interesting… because I didn’t miss a single night feeding.
I didn’t miss pediatric appointments.
I didn’t miss birthdays, fevers, sleepless nights, or sacrifices.
But here she come, fresh off the sidelines, talking like she earned a jersey.
Then one day my baby daddy tells me,
“She feels like you don’t respect her role.”
I said, “What role?”
Because let’s be very clear.
Holding my child for a few hours does not equal raising my child.
Posting pictures does not equal parenting.
Being present for the fun parts does not mean you were present for the hard parts.
She wants authority without responsibility.
A title without the work.
Respect without contribution.
And my baby daddy enables it because it makes his life easier.
It’s easier to let another woman argue with me than to step up himself.
But the funny part is this.
When the child is sick, they call me.
When decisions need to be made, they call me.
When money is needed, suddenly it’s “between me and him.”
So don’t try to replace me in the easy parts and disappear in the hard ones.
I told him one thing and I meant it.
“If she wants a seat at the table, she needs to bring something to it besides opinions.”
Because motherhood is not a costume you put on when it’s convenient.
And I’m not threatened by a girlfriend who hasn’t lasted long enough to see winter.

A man dates after a breakup and it’s called healing.
A woman dates and suddenly she’s “putting her child at risk.”
Same situation.
Different judgment.
Men can introduce women.
It’s “he moved on.”
Women introduce one person and it’s
“She irresponsible.”
“She careless.”
“She doing too much.”
Why is freedom only safe when men do it¿

I didn’t sign up for a marriage where I’m the wife,
but another woman still gets access to my husband’s heart,
humor,
attention,
and time.
That’s not co-parenting.
That’s leaving the emotional door cracked open “just in case.”
And I need someone to explain why a man who chose me
still needs to emotionally tap into the woman he already left.

Y’all LADIES really BELIEVING Nggas going WEEKS without FCKN 🤡🤣

Co-parenting is easy… until feelings get involved 😮‍💨

Tell me why me and my baby daddy hadn’t seen each other in months…
Next thing I know, we’re in the same space, talking, laughing, catching up.
One thing led to another
and yeah… we slipped.
Now I’m sitting here like,
“Why do exes always know exactly how to mess up your peace?”
Please tell me I’m not the only one this has happened to.