Dating Differently

'Modern' feminism has effectively killed the way things used to work, and work well. Not that the man dominates the woman, but she's in her feminine and he's in his masculine. Those two energies play well together.
Respect is at the core of a man's ability to produce, and it's been eroded by Hollyweird and pop culture in the US since the 1960s. Unfortunately, it's been exported around the world like our movies and US culture.
I'm not saying a gender needs to change, but men have bent too much in the last 75 years. Many have lost their ability to create things, work hard, and bring home the bacon.
The happiest and healthiest men thrive on partnership. Not being in charge, being loved the right way by a woman who knows how.
Women have been sold this idea about power and equality to the point where it's no longer a collaboration, but a competition. Men lose interest when women bring masculine energy to the home. It's fine at work if you can do it, but at home it nukes polarity that MUST be present.
Women who get this will attract and keep amazing relationships, and EMPOWER their man to move back to the kind of masculinity that they love. When he gets male energy from her, it repels him. It's simple, but not easy.

Online apps are just tools and they do work sometimes.

The real challenge is to get people to do the work only they can do on themselves so they are ready for a relationship.

Meeting the right person when you're not ready is a terrible thing, because you end up wasting the opportunity.

Learning to optimize self after the loss is harder and maybe the next great opportunity is years away...

Using these tools can be a double-edged sword if you're not ready to be in an amazing partnership.

Learn trust, respect and communication skills first.

People tend to 'settle down' for what is available.

When we do that, we eliminate the possibility for what we really desire.

Settle UP for what you really want. Be the surfboard!

That's right...people can influence you, but they can't MAKE you feel anything.

It's time to reverse the trend of calling yourself a victim because someone else has an opinion you don't share.

We are EACH personally responsible for how we feel in each moment. Own your power, people.

BElieving starts the chain reaction.

It's how you go from do have be...to BE have do.

You have always been in charge of this call, but people with thier own motives have hijacked your power.

Take ot back!