Lift After Drag

This is exactly what grieving people need. Even if they’re mad and feel bad. It’s what they NEED!

A while back, I mused whether death could be funny and found very few things. During a recent conversation with a coworker, he brought this up and it’s brilliant.

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I wish rest for this weary soul, who couldn’t see another way out of whatever misery he was feeling.

I think one of the things that bothers me most about the Q400 crash last night is how it demonstrates the extreme lengths that people sometimes go to end their lives when they feel like there are no other options. Our career field celebrates strength and bravery. While that is part of what makes aviation great, it is not a sign of weakness to admit that you are overwhelmed. In fact, doing so is usually the first step towards addressing your challenge.

It doesn't matter whether you are a pilot, a flight attendant, a loadmaster, or ground crew. We are all humans who experience joy and and sometimes extreme disappointments in life. We might have a unique job in a unique industry but our challenges aren't that different than other human beings. Sometimes those disappointments can add up and feel overwhelming. But we don't ever have to do it alone. You should know that no matter how bad your situation may seem, there is always hope.

If you are feeling down, don't go it alone. Reach out to someone. People care way more than you think. And there are ways to get help without impacting the career that you've worked so hard to achieve. If you see someone who is struggling, don't pile on. It takes a strong person to reach out to someone who is hurting.

If you don't have anyone to speak with and can't find anyone, feel free to message us, seriously. If you are experiencing thoughts of hurting yourself, don't stay in that place...seek help. You can call the National Su***de Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 anytime. Life is too precious to just give up. Even in the worst situation, there will be better days ahead. Take care of each other out there.

Jeff and the Avgeekery team.