HelloGypsy

Apparently I only post once a year these days BUT a few weeks ago Hello Gypsy turned nine and that feels like something I should document. ✨

I am still mom-ing it up full time over here and running the business during nap time, at the library while he plays trains, at a very cool co-working space with an indoor playground, and of course some nights and weekends.

The struggle of wanting to do all the things that are important to me, all at the same time, is still very real and I have yet to find the perfect balance… but I do my best each day and hope it’s enough. 🤞

I am also so lucky that I have a teeny tiny but wonderful team that I can count on and absolutely adore.

All of the time, I love my kid. Most of the time, I love being a mother (but the tantrums are wild and I really enjoy repeating myself and having not one child or dog listen to a freaking word I say). Most of the time, I love the work we do. And almost all of the time, I love the people we do it for.

So because there’s just too much love and not enough hours, I let the madness of each day continue because I wouldn’t have it any other way. 💖

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PS
The HG rebrand is still in the works (but I have 100% thrown out the timeline, maybe it will launch in time for our 10th birthday 😝) and I am still learning to go with the flow.

Hello Gypsy is 8 years old.

I knew I wanted to work for myself in 2007. By 2014, I was ready. For the majority of the last 15 years, Hello Gypsy was my main, and sometimes only, priority. This business and my work is truly, deeply, engrained into who I am as a person.

But long gone are the days glued to my laptop 24/7. Now, instead, I spend most of my time with him, and work comes later.

I surprised myself when I just could not choose work over him. When pregnant, I planned on finding at least a part time nanny so I could get back to work. But almost a year and a half later, I’m still not ready to fully dive back in.

I work when he sleeps. My days are long and overfilled. Especially when he sleeps like s**t. But here I am, trying to do all the things at once. Some days it works out well. Other days are 100% dumpster fires, filled with chaos. It’s exhausting but exactly as I designed.

During my freshman year of college I found a summer internship working for two amazing women, who had a small design firm. I ended up working for them every summer, fall, holiday, and spring break. I witnessed first hand just how a working mother could show up professionally, run a business, and be there for her kids. Even though I was only 19, I thought, I want that. Eventually.

And now in my mid 30s, that’s exactly what I’ve been doing. You’d think that setting a goal, working towards it, and “accomplishing” it would be the best thing ever. But, in reality, I’m still figuring it out as I go and don’t really feel accomplished at all. Things are constantly changing and I am learning to be more flexible.

But I’m spending time with him. During these wild, ridiculous, frustrating, precious, little years. And, then in the background, I’m also working. Taking on new clients and projects. Only scheduling calls during nap time. Working late nights and weekends.

This business is a much different version of what it was before. And that’s ok.

Right now, I’m over the moon to partner with clients and creatives who get it. Clients with kids. Clients who agree that it’s okay for life to come first. Clients with realistic deadline expectations.

Doing this work means these last 8 years I have had the privilege to meet the absolute best, most creative, and brave people. And I’m so lucky to keep doing what I do, with the people I do it for.

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So if you’ve wondered where I am, I’m still here. Doing my thing. Just not on Instagram very much right now. Because there’s only so many hours in the day. 💖