Beth McCormack

Yes, your social media posts can become evidence in your divorce!

And it’s not just the obvious things people think about.

I have seen social media impact everything from custody disputes, to financial claims, to someone’s overall credibility during a case.

A photo, a comment, a tagged location, or even a seemingly harmless post can sometimes tell a very different story than the one being presented in court.

That does not mean you need to disappear from the internet entirely. But it does mean you should be mindful.

Before posting, ask yourself:

*Would I be comfortable explaining this in court?
*Could this be misunderstood without context?
*Does this align with the position I am taking in my case?

And always remember, deleting posts does not always make them disappear.

The best approach is awareness, discretion, and good guidance.

If you have questions about navigating divorce in today’s digital world, I am always here to help. You can learn more and connect with me at beermannlaw.com/team/beth-f-mccormack.

Who would have thought divorce would become one of the most talked-about topics at an insurance conference?

Last month, I had the opportunity to speak at the NFP Insurance Annual Summit in Los Angeles alongside two incredible women and friends, Lindsey Markus and Pam Flaherty. And honestly, we were not entirely sure how a presentation centered around divorce would land with a room full of insurance professionals.

Turns out… they loved it.

What made the conversation so impactful was that we were not just talking about divorce. We were talking about everything that comes after and how important it is to have the right team guiding you through it.

Our clients often call us “the dream team,” and this presentation reminded me why.

I help clients navigate the divorce process. Lindsey helps them rebuild and protect their future through estate planning. Pam helps ensure they are properly covered from an insurance perspective. Together, we help people move forward with a strong support system.

Being able to bring that collaborative approach to a stage was incredibly rewarding, especially alongside two women I deeply admire.

And yes, between the presentation, the rave reviews, and three days of girlfriend time at a beautiful resort, I’d say it was a success.

And it ends with… a settlement. Plus $60 million in legal fees.

The Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni legal battle reportedly cost tens of millions of dollars… only to ultimately settle before trial.

And while most people will focus on the celebrity aspect of the story, I see something else.

A reminder of how emotionally and financially expensive unresolved conflict can become.

When emotions are high, it is easy to fall into the mindset of wanting to “win.” But litigation often comes at a cost far greater than people expect. Financially, emotionally, professionally, and personally.

This is something I talk about often in family law.

Not every case can or should settle quickly. Some situations absolutely require litigation. But in many cases, collaborative conversations and resolution-focused approaches can preserve far more than people realize.

Time. Energy. Privacy. Relationships. Financial stability.

The goal should not be to “win.” The goal is to move forward in the healthiest and most productive way possible.

Because at the end of the day, even high-profile cases with enormous resources end with the same result we all wish to achieve: resolution.

Photo via people.com.

I feel blessed this Mother’s Day, but not for the reasons you might think…

I didn’t expect to still need my mom as much as I do, or be so lucky to be able to spend so much quality time with her. Just being able to spend the day together, and play cards well into the night, with belly laughs throughout.

My mom is still very much mom-ing me. She gives advice, shares her “motherisms,” and continues to be such a steady support, especially when it comes to Lucy and her challenges. At the same time, I get to show up for her too in the ways I can. It feels like we are in that middle season, both caring for each other.

I am still very much in the thick of motherhood myself. Caring for Lucy has shaped who I am. She will always be my greatest blessing and being her mom is my greatest gift.

I have stepped into a whole new role this year. I have been given the opportunity to help guide and support Russell’s children too — my “bonus kids.”

Getting to listen to them, support them through work, life, and everything in between. Showing up for them has stretched me in the best way. It is a role I never imagined for myself, and one I feel so honored to have.

Becoming a Lolly has been a beautiful gift, and our dear sweet granddaughter provides us joy and giggles each week. Who would have thought?

Motherhood grows, shifts, and surprises you. And I am grateful for all of it.