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Life sometimes requires us to outgrow things that no longer serve us - a relationship, family, friends, or community that are not in alignment with your becoming. And that’s okay.
I woke up in a marriage I didn’t belong in, a religion that didn’t make sense anymore and had to grieve losing all that I thought was my life, in order to become more of me. To be real, authentic and that required deep grief and loss.
But I couldn’t avoid feeling the pain, I had to face it in order to heal. I’m grateful for the people who have come into my life and replaced my life with community, love and kindness.
Don’t avoid feeling what you need to heal. That’s required in order to live an authentic life.
05/16/2026
Every time you silence your truth, ignore your intuition, betray your needs, or shrink yourself to keep others comfortable… a part of you disconnects from who you truly are.
That disconnection is what poisons the soul.
Not all at once, but slowly. Quietly.
It shows up as anxiety, exhaustion, resentment, numbness, people-pleasing, depression, toxic relationships, and feeling lost within your own life.
Because the soul was never designed to survive abandonment from the very person meant to protect it… YOU.
Healing begins the moment you stop abandoning yourself to earn love, approval, validation, or belonging.
The moment you choose to honor your emotions, trust your inner voice, set boundaries, and come home to yourself… your soul begins to breathe again.
Your soul doesn’t need perfection.
It needs your presence.
— Brooke Deanne
05/15/2026
An abuser will tell you that you can’t live without them. Threaten you if you try to leave. Because they desire control.
An abusive, controlling community will do the same. FEAR all works in the same way. It’s used to keep within their grip.
And the sad thing is that you begin to believe it’s true. That maybe you won’t survive without them, that you’re weak, not capable and you doubt your own strength.
A perfect design to keep you stuck, despite suffering, unhappiness, or feeling something just feels off.
If you’re deconstructing from abuse, narcissistic predators, or high control religion - welcome 🤗
Sometimes, you have to be the villain in someone else’s story just for telling the truth — and I’m okay with that.
In dysfunctional family systems, the person who speaks up is often labeled as the “crazy” one, the difficult one, or the problem. Not because they’re wrong, but because truth makes people uncomfortable. It’s often easier for others to discredit the truth teller than to take accountability, self-reflect, and acknowledge what needs to change.
People who are unwilling to heal or change will often refuse to accept their role in the dysfunction. This is especially common in narcissistic family dynamics, where the family member who awakens and begins calling out harmful behaviors becomes the scapegoat. The moment you stop protecting the dysfunction and start exposing the harm, the system will often try to make you the problem.
But speaking the truth about abuse, manipulation, or unhealthy patterns does not make you wrong. It makes you aware. And awareness is what breaks generational cycles.
Keep speaking truth.
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