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“Either you must control your thoughts, or the outside forces will control them and be warned that the outside forces usually consist of fears, worries & doubts.”⁣
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Scrollin📲I found this video from 2014 that really resonated.⁣
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Lemme explain.⁣
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⏱Advice my dad always gave me I intellectually but never emotionally understood until recently is “be aware of your internal self talk.”⁣⁣
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Words are spells➡️what we tell ourselves brings proverbial heaven🔃hell in our minds and lives.⁣
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Believe it or not-I’m a big guy that has never made a practice of lifting weights. Naturally big. So on this day after a jujitsu workout run by genuine good human Ken-I felt inspired to try to squat 700lbs. This after never attempting so much as 300lbs before. Never try➡️never know.⁣
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Its striking➡️now listening to the external voice while under duress. Whoever it was(not Ken btw) let’s just say it was not positive. If I had listened-I woulda cracked. Instead I went to that mission, vision and why place in my mind. Had a goal. I wanted to squat the weight. The number didn’t matter. Achieving goal did. So I tuned out all external noise.⁣⁣
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What do you want to accomplish & what’s stopping you?💡Your internal self talk..Is it strong enough to overpower the constant external voices telling you NO?⁣
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Remember this:⁣⁣
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•Waiting for calvary,approval, applause, those cats ain’t coming. Cemetery is full of folks still waiting. Stop waiting.⁣
•Waiting for things to be perfect-they won’t. 80% ➡️ enough. Perfection➡️Lie.⁣
•Waiting for the eureka moment- friends- those delicious moments➡️happening every second of our day. Carpe diem them.⁣⁣
•Afraid?😳Good. If it doesn’t scare you, likely not worth it. 🔊definition of courage❇️feel fear & do it anyway.⁣
•Lastly, surround ☂️ yourself with your core people that when you’re tired(you will get tired) in pursuit of your dreams ➡️they will push you and buoy you. And if you don’t have that- it’s ok 2- go back to that voice in your head. Build him or her to become your biggest cheerleader & friend in hard times & learn how to 🔊to that voice as you’ll need it for the journey you are embarking on.⁣⁣
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With high hopes for us.

Flashback to a fun day and a blast shoot I stole from my friend Shelly(😂)of a live tour of and shot by the great video creator .
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The beauty was the smiles on their faces was not because they were friends- it’s because touring NYC via Smilecar (yes we said smilecar as that’s what it does)🏍💨💨🖤😉 does that.
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Start dreaming about doing the same very soon y’all .