Lisa Scott Attorney

The difference between a legal separation and a divorce can be confusing. Legal separation means you end the relationship officially and divide debt and assets as you would for a divorce, but you're still legally married. This choice makes sense for those who don't want to divorce for religious, personal, or financial reasons (such as if medical benefits are involved).

The biggest challenge in many divorces, after child custody is decided, is how to settle the financial obligations that the family may have. A solid mediation may be able to help you work through that log jam, and a good attorney will be able to help you find a mediator who can do it.

With a prenuptial agreement, spouses agree in advance on the way in which assets will be split in the event of a divorce. This can be a wise strategic move if one spouse is significantly wealthier than the other.

Property division can be one of the most contentious issues in a divorce. It’s recommended that you don’t sell any major assets during your divorce process. Such actions will only complicate proceedings and may make it more difficult for you in the eyes of the judge.

Individuals seeking a divorce that do not hire a lawyer commonly make mistakes that require hearings to be rescheduled, whether the issue is missed deadlines or forms filled out incorrectly. This can force both parties to the divorce to miss additional time from work and to lose money.