Urban Socialites

WELLNESS WITH PRIDE

Remind yourself that, despite your challenges, you are a unique, special, and valuable person, and that you deserve to feel good about yourself. You are, after all, a miracle of PURPOSE.

BLACK GAY PROUD EVOLUTIONARY

SERIOUSLY SEEKING????

For many reasons, it is difficult for HIM to make room for something real once he discovers just how many choices he has online, he may become less interested in committing and more interested in continuing to look around.

WISDOM
Some men use the Internet to find relationships; some use it to run from them.

What’s your experience on the APPS

It's simple: when he loves you, he wants to keep you happy. This doesn't mean always letting you get your way, but it does mean he'll be eager to reach a middle ground with you where you're both happy. Whether it's where you spend quality time or who gets the remote, he'll show his love by insisting that we call the shots sometimes.

Sometimes, one of the hardest and most rewarding fitness hurdles to overcome is the mental one — the awareness that your body is your body, with all its unique characteristics and individualities. There’s always something we could want to change about our bodies. But instead of dwelling on those components, celebrating them is a surefire way to gain mental peace and greater self-confidence.

Living inside ourselves means no longer being addicted to stimulation. It means no longer living a life of constant doing, interspersed with periods of distraction. Inwardness brings a fundamental sense of ease and contentment. We are perfectly happy even if there are no entertainments or activities to occupy our attention. We can rest peacefully inside ourselves, occupying our own mental space and observing our own thoughts and feelings.

The truth is, you’re not the same person you were in the past. You don’t do things the same way you once did. You no longer want what you once wanted. Instead of labeling yourself and focusing on who you are today, recognize how much you’ve grown and changed from your former self.

Conscious appreciation arises naturally from giving our full attention to our surroundings and our experience. It’s the sense of natural appreciation we might feel when we feel relaxed and our minds are fairly quiet, and we perceive the world around us freshly and directly. 

CAUSALITIES OF LOVE LOST!

I want you to know that it is not always easy to love me. That sometimes my chest is a field full of landmines, and where I was last night, I can’t guarantee tomorrow. It’s not about disrespect but more about my personal journey. There is no manual, there is no road map, no help line you can call; my body does not come with instructions, and sometimes even I don’t know what to do with it. This cannot be easy. But still, you touch me anyway.

It's time we change the way we approach our pursuit of committed
connections. Rather than partaking in the superficial race, we need to evolve our perception of dating and become conscious daters. [CONSCIOUS] dating is a method that honors and respects US as individuals and offers an emotionally healthy way to find love. This process is about attracting a partner who are in alignment with our most authentic self. It's not about creating superficial illusions or wearing a mask.
WISDOM
Put down the mask, to work on ourselves, and to understand the direct correlation between the love we have for ourselves and the love we receive from others.

Maybe it’s time to begin taking care of your self? It’s far better to change the way you live, beginning now, instead of waiting for things to get out of your control. Create an inventory of your health including diet, exercise, genetics, and stress level. Begin slowly, one change at a time, eventually incorporating others.