Rev S. S. Kutsemba

Rev SS Kutsemba
senior pastor at
Prayer Centre International Assemblies

30 WAYS TO BRING ROMANCE BACK TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE WITHOUT INVOLVING S*X

We always mistake romance whenever it's mentioned as s*x or s*xually related. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Giving your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations.

4. Food Tasting. Trying out different meals together and joking about each other it.

5. Pulling up her seat Or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

6. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

7. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit.

8. Early morning love note... "How you meant the world to me" Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age.

9. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

10. Surprised Breakfast on bed after waking her up

11. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

12. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire.

13. Planting and Gardening together... Choosing where each plants or flowers will be together.

14. Playful competition at home... Either sports, games, cooking or etc.

15. Doing house chores together...

16. Bathing your partner... Give me him or her that heavenly care 😊

17. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

18. Text your partner randomly during the day or at work... How you missed him or her

19. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

20. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

21. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

22. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

23. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

24. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

25. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

26. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other.

27. Working out together... Being a source of encouragement to eachother while getting in shape. More reasons couples that works out together see results faster than those who work out separately.

28. Visiting eachother parents together... Love is committment, commitment builds family. Family bonds.

29. Volunteering together... Orphanages, pet care, health awareness.

30. Cook each other their best meals... Learning how to prepare your spouse's best meal shows you really want to show them how much you value them.

Remember You both made a vow to be there for eachother. Do and say things that communicate love.

If you two are just dating and your coming together is because of s*x, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you both are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want s*x then you are weakening your marriage.

Revive Romance in your Relationship.

It's still in your hands

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