Mercy Outreach Ministries Int

Are We Compatible?????

Compatibility is one of the major criteria for marriage. Don't joke with this aspect ,don't try to ignore it because it will become a serious problem in marriage. There are certain aspects in a person you look out for and these includes.....

-Spiritual Compatibility
Never marry an unbeliever, it's a death sentence. I will change him/her is a lie, he/she will start attending church when we are married is self deceit.
Marry a Christian not a church goer. Marry one with the fear of God, one in whom dwells the Spirit of God.

-Values
Are your values compatible ? What do you believe in? What do you stand for? Protect your integrity and ensure your spouse does that. Ensure you believe in and stand for the same thing.

-Vision
What do you see? Where are you heading to? Your destination should determine who is qualified to travel with you. Marry some one whose vision complements yours. Not visions of materials things, property, money. Its absurd if someone channelled for ministry is getting married to a politician, lawyer, bankers, e.t.c. it's not bad but their vision don't complement each other. Marry her because she will partner with your vision, see how you see, focused on your focus, you both are going to the same direction, you have the same passion. To serve God, give for God work for God, Young lady, marry vision. Not just man n lover also young man marry vision not just a lover.

I might not be able to mention all areas but you know those areas where compatibility is required, don't try to manage it because life while dating is quite different from life in marriage, if she could not believe and trust you now then don't wait your time, Its two different persons from different backgrounds, lifestyles and choices living under the same roof. Its takes more than "I LOVE YOU" to stay together. So open your eyes well, watch and pray.

What is that quality, character, attitudes behavior, mannerisms, you are looking out for? Go for it. Ask yourself these questions and answer them sincerely,

For the guys.....
Can I live with this lady for the next 50years of my life? Can I condole her attitude ? Can I cope with her being noisy or rather too quiet ? Can I live with a hot-tempered woman? Who can't control her hot emotions, Who walks out of you in the presence of your friends, family or members? Can i cope with her nagging attitudes not believing you, but always suspecting you for negative things.

For the ladies ......
Can I marry him? Can I live with his hot-tempered character ? He talks a lot, do I like it? Can we walk together ? How can he contribute to the fulfillment of my vision ?
The fulfillment of your vision is largely influenced by the person you marry .
Ask the Lord for direction and He will lead you rightly. Think about it and
Do have a great weekend.

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Senior Pastor David C Opene - Man of the vision Mercy Outreach Ministries Int