Chris C

Stay only where you are seen, desired, protected, loved.

With a man, you should not feel alone.

You should not ask yourself every day if you still matter, if you are still desired, if the man next to you really chooses you.

Love should not extinguish you. It should not make you sadder, more tired, more insecure.

The right man does not come into your life to take away your peace, sparkle and years.

With the man who loves you, you are not at the bottom of the list of priorities.

Everything is not asked of you and nothing is offered to you. You do not have to pray for attention, presence, tenderness or love.

That true love makes you blossom.

Just stay there.

Sometimes, your eyes will run after others – after another woman’s ass, breasts, face. Even though you have your own at home.

Maybe you feel a call to try something else, to talk to another woman. Well, if you’ve reached this point, it would be nice of you to give up on her love and then desire any other woman. That would be fair for both of you, that would be the lesser evil that, whether we want it or not, we may be forced to choose.

If there’s no more magic between you, don’t do another magic through which you can break her soul into pieces. Be honest, assume your feelings and leave for new beginnings. Whether it’s better or not, you’ll see for yourself – the chances are 50-50.

If a routine has set in between you and you feel that you can no longer evolve together, be a man, break up with her like a gentleman and then you can try everything you can. No one will judge you, because they have no reason to.

And, most importantly, you kept your respect for the woman with whom you shared beautiful and less beautiful moments until the end of the relationship.

We are all aware that there is no written law that says that love for a person is eternal. Whether it lasts forever or not, only time will tell.

It is not wrong to give up on a woman's love, but it is wrong to betray her trust, to trample on her soul without thinking at all.

It is not wrong to leave, then, for others, but it is wrong to be with others while she is waiting for you at home.

It is not wrong to change women either, but it is wrong to bring them together.

So, worry as much as you want, but don't leave behind wounds that, perhaps, will be difficult to heal.

Dear woman, remember the following things:

It's not worth losing yourself in a relationship with a partner who gives you crumbs! I know you're tempted to give more and more, hoping that one day you'll receive a... whole love. I know you still hope that tomorrow will be different, but you see, people don't change overnight.

Stop accepting all the crap they offer you! Take heart and pack your bags. Say goodbye and leave without looking back. You have time to heal your wounds later. But if you stay with a man who constantly hurts you, you won't be able to heal anything, absolutely nothing.

There are good men! You just, you see, sometimes you need to learn to keep them. And stop considering them boring. I know you're used to chaos, which you won't find with a good man. Get ready for him!

Your relationships are a mirror of your relationship with yourself! If you don't resolve your inner conflicts, you will always come across men who will push all the buttons of your soul. You become a magnet and attract all the disappointments of this world.

Prince Charming will not fall from the sky. He will not knock on your door.
Just as a healthy and long-lasting relationship is built, it is not found.

Maybe it wasn't what you were hoping to hear, but ... let's stop hiding behind fingers.

What do you say?