Adarich Relationship Tips

MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN BE GUIDED.

My dear, if it's not you is not you no matter how you please them, in the end they know who they want to spend there life with.

If you like, cook chicken and serve in a diamond plate, buy a mansion for him, fight for his sake, give him monkey, crocodile style, in the end, he will only see you as a play thing, because they know who there heart beat for.

Please know when a man love you, not what he said, to satisfy his urge.
Know when you're WANTED OR NEEDED.
A man will always be a man anointed or not be guided .

HOW TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE BED WARM
1. Kiss and make out with your spouse often
2. Go to bed at the same time as much as possible, not one finding the other asleep
3. Stay faithful to your spouse
4. Have pillow talks. Intimate conversations before sleeping
5. Don't argue. Always ask yourself "Are you speaking to your spouse with a smile?"
6. Put away the phone in bed. No Facebook, WhatsApp, news or business when it's intimate time
7. Praise each other's body, character and achievements in bed
8. Sleep naked if you can. If it's too cold, wear something attractive
9. Play love songs or worship music in the bedroom to set the mood for warmth
10. Make love as often as you can. Sweat
11. Take time to pray. Take turns. Today it's his turn, tomorrow hers
12. Cuddle up. Stroke each other's skin
13. Get playful and naughty. S***k, tease, gently pinch, flirt, dance, rub your butt on him, poke her butt with your p***s
14. Share the same blanket/duvet
15. Sleep holding each other. Cuddling. His hand between her breasts
16. Brush your teeth. Fresh breath makes closeness easier
17. Dim the lights
18. Talk with breaks of kisses. Whisper
19. Wish each other a good night
20. Greet each other with a good morning kiss

12 REASONS HUSBANDS LEAVE THEIR WIVES FOR ANOTHER WOMAN

"Till death do us part” were his words to her, at the altar, on their wedding day

How come he is now living his life with another woman?

What could have made him leave his once beloved wife for another woman?

How did he get to the point where he no longer desires to spend the rest of his life with her?

Let’s find out why a man could leave his wife partially or permanently for another woman.

1. HE IS BORED IN THE MARRIAGE.
Sometimes, people get bored in marriage.

A friend shared his fear about committing to one woman for a lifetime.

He said he feared that he would get bored at some point, as he naturally loses interest in things that once excited him.

He constantly seeks to do new things.

Therefore, he fears that this trait of his may affect his decision to vow to spend the rest of his life with only one woman.

If the fun that used to be in their relationship no longer exists, a man may seek fun and excitement elsewhere.

2. HE FALLS OUT OF LOVE WITH HER.
If a man no longer loves his wife, everything she does will no longer interest him, making it easier to notice other women.

Then it gets to the point where he begins to compare his wife with another woman, and he gradually concludes that the other woman is the new love of his life.

In situations like these, his communication and conflict-resolution efforts will be reduced.

So the zeal and will to make things work out in the marriage may disappear, thereby making his heart fonder of his new love interest.

3. HE FEELS DISRESPECTED.
A man who feels constantly disrespected could also leave his disrespectful wife for a woman who makes him feel like a treasure.

A woman can disrespect her husband in many ways, which may contribute to his resolve to leave her for another woman.

If she talks down on him, does not value his opinion, compares him to other men, undermines his contributions, etc., he may move on to another woman who makes him feel respected.

4. HE FEELS CHOKED.
The responsibilities of marriage and parenthood may become overwhelming for a man, especially if he isn’t prepared for such.

This is why there seem to be more deadbeat fathers than mothers.

It appears easier for men to flee from the responsibilities of parenthood than women.

In search of breathing space, a man may run into the arms of a child-free woman.

He could also feel choked if the wife monitors his every move and does not respect his privacy.

This is common with extremely jealous women who let their jealousy prevent their men from socialising.

5. HE FEELS NEGLECTED/UNCARED FOR.
One of the reasons why we get married is to meet each other’s needs.

But if a married man feels single because his wife has neglected him and couldn’t be bothered about his needs, he may decide to have his needs met elsewhere.

More often than not, it is about the emotional and s*xual needs of a man that makes him feel so neglected.

6. HE NO LONGER FINDS HIS WIFE ATTRACTIVE.
Over time, some men complain about losing interest in their wives’ bodies.

This loss of interest will obviously lead to a loss of s*xual attraction.

It could stem from factors ranging from overfamiliarity to body changes due to ageing, childbearing, accident, ailment, and so on.

Therefore, he no longer finds s*x with her exciting.

Consequently, he may leave his wife for a woman whose body retains his s*xual attention.

7. HE IS S*X STARVED.
S*xual starvation has pushed many men to leave their wives for another woman.

S*x is one of the commonest reasons some marriages have broken down irretrievably.

A man may want to have s*x with his wife, but she refuses to oblige him.

She starves him of s*x, and when he no longer finds the situation tolerable, he opts for another available option to satisfy his urges.

8. HE FEELS ENDANGERED.
One’s marital home is meant to be a safe space where one can live without fear or risks.

However, when a man’s life is threatened by the woman he is married to, he may have to make the decision to leave so as to live.

This fear of danger could be caused by domestic violence, threats to harm him, or fetishism on the part of the woman.

In such instances, it is not unexpected for the man to prioritize his safety over the marriage.

He may, therefore, run into the arms of a woman with whom he feels safe.

9. HE IS NOT CONTENT.
If a man lacks contentment, he will never feel satisfied with his wife, no matter who she is or what she does.

A person lacking contentment will always feel that what they have is not as good enough as others.

And they will do anything possible to chase what others have.

A man’s decision to leave his wife may not be due to the wife’s fault.

He probably simply lacks contentment.

A man who is not content with his choice of partner will lack the patience to work out things during the difficult seasons of marriage and may likely chicken out at the slightest encumbrance.

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MARRY YOUR MATE

6 MATES YOU MUST MARRY!

One of the ways your marriage will not add to the rate of divorce in our world today is for you to marry your mate and if you are married already, make your spouse your mate!
You see that statement of ' Am I your mate?' does not apply in marriage. You must marry your mate. I will like to talk on seven dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have married must be mate.

1. : Marry someone you can speak together and understand each other. Communication is very crucial in marriage. Don't marry someone that, when you are saying 'A' he or she will be saying ' Z' Once their is dichotomy in your speaking and understanding level, you can't enjoy that marriage. So many men go to bar to hang out with friends and gist till 11pm because they know their wives can't engage in any meaningful intellectual discussion. So many women too prefer to hang out with their friends, because they know their husbands mentality when it comes to vital issues and discussions is very low. Marry your speaking Mate.

2. :
By this I mean, marry someone you can learn together and improve together. Don't marry ' Mr Know all' or 'Miss Know all'. Don't marry someone who is rigid and not open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new innovations. Marriage is a great institution. From day one till death do you part, you will keep learning. Marry your 'school' mate; someone who is ready to learn with you.

3. : Marriage is not just a social union. It is also a spiritual union. Marry someone who knows the same God you know. Don't marry someone who's believe of God is different from yours. Two can't work together except they be agreed ( Amos 3:3, Joshua 23: 11-15, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18). The spiritual controls the physical, even in marriage. Check for spiritual compatibility in that person you want to marry.

4. : Don't marry someone who is stingy. There are so many expenses to cater for in marriage. A stingy guy in courtship won't suddenly become a generous husband in marriage. Don't marry a lady that has the financial philosophy of ' My husband's money is our money, but my money is my money'. Marry someone who believes in dignity of labour , who is ready to work, not a lazy fellow who just want to be a consumer and not a contributor. Marry someone who is ready to spend and be spent for the growth and success of the family.

5. *X_MATE: Marry someone you have s*xual feelings for. S*xual feeling is not a sin. It is an instinct God put in every person. S*x plays a major role in the success of any marriage. Any man you don't have emotional feelings for, don't marry the person. If you don't have emotional feelings for that lady, leave her alone. A spiritual being is also a s*xual being. No matter how spiritual you both may be in your marriage, you won't be praying for 24 hours in a day. You won't be reading the Bible or worshipping God 24/7. You will have s*x! You will romance! You will flirt with each other! You will make babies. So, marry someone you can connect with s*xually. It will help you to enjoy your marriage so much!

6. : Don't marry someone you won't be proud to go out with. Don't marry someone you will be feeling shy to introduce to people with boldness. Marry someone you are comfortable to hang out with. Marry someone you are socially compatible with. Don't marry an anti- social person.
You might be wondering if your can find all the 'mates' in one person. Yes! The answer is YES! You don't need to marry 6 guys/ladies to have all these mates. One person can be all that for you. If you also work on yourself and build your life, you can be all that for the guy/lady that will marry you.
The promise of God for you is this : 'Seek and read from the book of the LORD: Not one of these shall be missing; none shall be without her mate. For the mouth of the LORD has commanded, and his Spirit has gathered them.' (Isaiah 34:16).
Say it loud and clear 'I shall not lack a mate!'
I hope this blessed someone reading?

15 SIGNS OF A WISE WOMAN IN A MARRIAGE

A wise woman in a marriage often displays several key qualities and behaviors that contribute to a strong, healthy, and lasting relationship. Here are some signs of a wise woman in marriage:

1. Emotional Maturity: She handles conflicts with grace, avoids unnecessary drama, and responds thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively......

2. Effective Communication: She listens actively, speaks respectfully, and expresses her needs and feelings clearly without resorting to blame......

3. Patience and Understanding: She understands that marriage is a journey with ups and downs and is patient during difficult seasons......

4. Supportive Partner: She supports her husband’s goals and dreams while also pursuing her own, fostering a partnership where both can thrive.......

5. Knows When to Speak and When to Be Silent: She understands that timing and tone matter; sometimes silence is more powerful than words.......

6. Resolves Conflicts Peacefully: She seeks solutions instead of escalating issues. She values peace and unity over being "right.".

7. Practices Forgiveness: She doesn’t hold grudges but chooses to forgive and move forward, understanding that no one is perfect.....

8. Financial Wisdom: She manages resources prudently, contributes to financial stability, and understands the value of planning for the future......

9. Respects Her Husband: She values and respects her husband’s role, affirming his efforts and leadership without undermining him......

10. Focuses on Building the Home: She prioritizes creating a peaceful, loving, and nurturing environment for her family......

11. Self-awareness: She understands her strengths and weaknesses, continuously working on self-growth and personal development.......

12. Values Intimacy: She nurtures emotional and physical intimacy, recognizing its importance in keeping the marriage vibrant.....

13. Trustworthy and Loyal: She is faithful and trustworthy, building a foundation of trust in her relationship......

14. Knows the Power of Prayer/Faith (for the spiritually inclined): She leans on faith for guidance, strength, and wisdom in navigating marital challenges......

15. Practices Gratitude: She focuses on the good in her husband and their life together, choosing appreciation over criticism......

MEN PAY ATTENTION.😭😭😭🎁LET ME ALSO TELL YOU SOME SECRET ABOUT WOMEN TODAY.

1. When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says. If possible always hug her to calm her down.

2. The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed.

3. It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change her mind when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

4. A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

5. Your wedding certificate with her is not a " Driving license", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her.

6. She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. Yes treat her right always.

7. A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt. Avoid negative words and affirm her always.

8. A woman can be highly secretive. Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and cry to friends. Make your woman your best friend.

9. All women Love to be begged. Men often miss out on this. Yes please handle them like babies sometime its all they want.

10. All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

11. If she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you.

12. If you don't take care of her, she will find someone who will. They are always there only that she chose you.

13. If a woman truly loves you, even to ask money from you she will be shy, but as a gentleman don't wait to be asked and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily.

That's what makes them special
If you have a good woman in your life, don't take her for granted. They are expensive jewelry. Don't hurt them cos there are many out there that wish to have someone like her

In every man's success there must be a good honest Woman Behind.

HOW A WOMAN CAN MAKE HER MAN LOVE HER MORE

1. CORRECT HIM
Men, love it when the woman tells him when he wrongs. The problem is many women don't know how to correct. Correct him with love, "Honey, don't you think it would have been better if..."; don't scold him like he is a little boy. Approach and tone is key. Don't attack

2. CHALLENGE HIM
Do greater things on your own, inspire him, expose him to greatness, make progress in your life that he feels he needs to pull up his socks. Don't just sit lazy. A man wants a woman who is hungry for her own personal growth. Challenging him doesn't mean looking down on him or asking why can't he be like other men?

3. NEED HIM
Men love feeling needed. Lovingly ask him for help, ask him for advice, "My love, what do you think I should do?". Involve him in your life and when he does help, thank him

4. PRAY FOR HIM
No matter the level of a man's spirituality, prayer is respected and considered sacred. Pray for him, let him hear you pray for him

5. PRAISE HIM
The kind of compliments men love are, "You are such a good man", "You make a great dad", "Your mind is incredible", "You have a s*xy body", "I love how you touch me", "My honey, I am proud of you". Praise him in private and in public. Don't be that woman who is quick to point out his flaws but rarely highlighs what he does right

6. S*XUALLY MAKE ADVANCES
Many women think s*x is to be left to the man, so they wait for the man to make advances. They become passive and shy during s*x. Lady, your husband will love it sometimes if you are s*xually aggressive, ask for his body, reach for his p***s. Show him that you know he belongs to you. Make s*x an adventure

7. SHOW INTEREST IN HIM
Ask him how his day is, his dreams, if he is OK. Most women want the man to show interest but they don't show interest back

8. TRUST HIM, DON'T MICROMANAGE HIM
Don't be overly posssessive, demanding him to spend every second with you. Snooping his phone and doubting him when you find nothing, being suspicious of him, chocking his social life, . Be mature, if you push him away, he will keep things friom you then things will get ugly. Most men keep things from their women, not because they are doing something wrong but because their women read too much into everything and pick up fights. This is dangerous. You are his Queen, wear your crown with confidence

9. COMPLAIN LESS
So many women don't even know they complain, they think they are simply expressing their right to speak and get things done properly. But men dislike a complaining woman, if he doesn't do things as you like, if he is not at your level; don't attack and nag. Just simply request him to do things a better way, but as you do so, appreciate the much he has done so far

10. GIVE HIM PEACE
This is what we all want when with a person. Peace. Peace at home. No fights, no frustrations, no stress. If your man is spending less time with you, perhaps you're not giving him peace. Men avoid complicated and draining environments. Lady, you complaining every day to him that he doesn't spend much time with you makes things worse. You think you are putting your point across but he feels pushed away. Attract him to you by giving him peace. Some men stay out there, not looking for a woman, but looking for peace

11. LOOK GOOD
Dress up, look s*xy. Don't look good only when you are outside the home, look good also when it's just you two

12. TREAT HIM
Cater to him, cook for him, buy him gifts, treat him like a king, straighten his tie. These simple things mean alot to him, even if not every day, often

13. HAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS
Men get attracted to good converations. They want laughter, depth, intelligent conversations. They want to be listened to, to be wowed by a woman's mind. A woman who talks lovey dovey stuff but also about business, investments, social issues, a great vision; that woman is a keeper

14. EAT WITH HIM
Men love a good meal. Make it a habit to eat with him. Food brings people together

15. BE ADMIRABLE
Succeed in your personal life, do great things outside your marriage. Shine as a woman. Make him proud to say "That is my wife". Even the Proverbs 31 husband calls his wife "Blessed"

16. BE FRIENDLY TO HIS FRIENDS
Don't fight his friends. Find out who his friends are, get to have laughs and talks with them. Support his social life, be good to his family and siblings. If you have an issue with one of them, bring it to his attention without starting a war. Allow to also know your friends. When you both do this, it makes both of you secure

17. MAKE AN EFFORT TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HE LIKES
Find out what he likes and spend time with him once in a while doing that thing. If he loves rugby, watch matches with him sometimes; if he wins an award, go cheer him as he receives it; be his topmost fan in everything.
Choose wisely 🫶💖💞