Love Issues

*LOVE & MONEY*😝

These days, one can hardly distinguished between "Love for love" and "Love for money,,, and in the cause of that, many questions had been begging for an answer; like..

Can love still be active in the absence of of money?
What role did money play in the field of love??
Can money buy love?
To what extent could it reach, then, money can come in?

Yes, money is everything and at the same time, money is not everything....
The afforementioned quote can be used for different people in different occasions with absolutely different mentality.
Money is everything to the person who did not have it and did not know the potentiality of how to juxtapose his/her present perceptions. Nothing else will have value in his eyes, except MONEY.

Then Money is not everything to someone whom, not only had the money, but had created the awareness of looking beyond a fixed and stationery assets. He knows money as been capable of facilitating easy life, and also can foster a difficult life......

Now, relating it to our topic, personally, I may say that Love and Money shares a very vital and essential interconnectedness in a relationship but not as important as it has been far-fetched exaggerated in today's loving relationships....

Really, Money holds very tightly, a relationship; but oftentimes, we use our hand to spoil the relationship by early introduction of money as a love signs.

At the inception of any good intentional relationship, one thing that should be excluded is Money.
Many people did not know. There are stages to secure an impressional, real and long lasting relationship...
I will not go deep about it now cos its a topic itself.... maybe next edition....

In such Money motivated relationship, one will notice that it was not solidified. Once the money stop coming, the emotion begins to fade.

Listen, some people was like -- eeh! If you truly love me, you must love me the way I am... 😂😂😂 Nobody can change me! Love me & love my dog🐕!
And the question is, what if you & your dog are wrong and both of you did not know? Probably the person (the Guy proposing) is in better position to help correct.......
Will he/she use for the sake of loving you the way you're and love you in a wrongful way??
No nah! Its not done!! Two wrongs can not make a single right....

What am I saying? I'm only trying to make a difference between adulterated and materials embedded love and well nurtured affection. What we called "the first impression" in a relationship, has 90% capacity to determine how safe and healthy a relationship can be...

However, in the case of marriage intended relationship, make sure there is money at least, be self satisfying to avoid seeing Hell on Earth.

I really love you, Honey! That can not pay House rent, School fees, Foodz etc... Action speaks louder than words....
like I always say, "if the cap fits, ware it...

Next time, I will talk about stages in relationship... until then,
Remain Blessed.

"You call it madness, but I call it love"
"Where there is love there is life"
" Age does not protect you from love, but love to some extent protect you from age"

With these beautiful and amazing love quotes, I welcome you to this edition.
Last time I promise to be talking about the disparities ( differences) between love and like....

It will be interesting to let you know that in recent years, some psychological scholars had begun what seems like a systematic comparison of love according to their own assessments of the nature of love.....thereby arguing on the question of the different between love & like?

---Is the difference a quantitative one, such that love is simply an intense form of liking? Or is there a qualitative difference between liking and loving?
But for you to know how much incomprehensible this love is, they have never come up with a generally, fully and unquestioned fact to separate the two...

Notwithstanding, there three points at least, to say that love and like is mostly in uniformity....

(1) Imagination plays much role in love, while liking is more reality; you can say, more serious.
Yes. Imagination, fantasy, illusions, mirage, false, lying, fake promises, etc
All these has blasphemed & bastardized the pure image of love... People now love with interior motive...
The kind of fake promises that some people make nowadays in the name of love is too alarming & monstrosity...
It is all these nincompoop & untidy views that people takes in place of love which had make it so cheap...

So that's why in the other hand, liking seems more natural, serious... cos you can hardly hear somebody telling you that due to the kind of likeness he/she had for you, he/she can not sleep without you... and you will believe....he can only convince you by using love which sounds sweet...

(2) Love can involve negative and positive ( loving & hating the person with time) while liking involves only one affection and also, been straight forward.

One can say indubitandumly that there are possiblity that someone can inversely hate someone he had loved once. though there is a higher proportion that it can as well happen to liking, but the name is more vividly appears in the cease of love...
Again, Sexual affections is more experienced in loving screen than liking screen...

But here, wholeheartedly, "like" is only like, no matter how you emphasize it.. Its no duplicate. And even, people takes is more likely than love....

Finally, the 3rd one is;
Liking becomes more durable over time, While love tend to weaken...

Here it is more understandable. See, when you like something or someone, it entails that you like it's nature. You naturally li it. You like it with no condition.... it is unconditional, what we called Agape. Come rain, come Sun even heat, you still like it...
But once you love because of what you see.. Or that you were moved by merely emotion... Anytime that thing stop to empress you, the love we fade... Why? It is obvious, it was conditioned.

I love this beautiful lady. Oh my God! She is like morning Sun! It's all fallacy... Don't forget, the love chemical reacting in your body my seize one day and you will have no other option than to see her augly part....

Nevertheless, love someone once you're ware of what you are doing....
Sam Keen says and I quote "Love isn't finding a perfect person, it' s seeing an imperfect person perfectly"

Thank you and God bless you!!!