Learning that can never ends

He who discussed another person with you would eventually discuss you with another......

So any woman who leaves a man because of you, would one day leave you because of another man......

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Ladies, this is a little advice from the heart ❤️

Build yourself. Invest in your growth, your skills, your purpose. A man coming into your life should not be your source of income — he should be an addition, not your foundation.

Don’t pause your dreams waiting for someone to come and “complete” your life. Your life should already be in motion. The right person meets you moving, not waiting.

Marriage is not a poverty alleviation program. It is a partnership between two people who are both bringing value to the table.

Stand on your own. Grow on your own. Become your own stability first.

When you do that, any love that comes into your life will be a blessing — not a rescue.

•A Struggling Guy - Broke
•A Struggling Lady - Strong and Independent.

•A Guy that double dates - Cheating.
•A Lady that double dates - Keeping her options open.

•When a Lady Breaks up - She deserves better.
•When a Guy breaks up - He wasted her time.

•When a guy is rude - Toxic.
•When a lady is rude - Mood Swings.

•Plus Size guy - Fat/Biggie
• Plus Size lady - Chubby

•A Woman set standards - Preference.
•A Man set standards - Narcissist.

And here comes the most important thing

if you consider the words that you have spoken during the past 24 hours, how would you evaluate them?
were there loving,
uplifting,
frustrating,
anxious, angry
gossipy?

out of abondance of the heart the mouth speaks.people tell you how they feel about you when they are angry not when they are happy

Stop playing game

Don't play games with a man who is at peace being alone.

He handles his own domestic chores, he cleans, he cooks, he does his own laundry, handles his own finances and actually enjoys the empty space in his bed.

Such men do not even need you for the chores, your attention nor your validation to feel worthwhile or complete

If you are in his life, your presence has to feel like an upgrade and not an interruption of his peace.

This kind of men can not be manipulated, controlled or even impressed by the bare minimum

If you are not adding value to his life, he'll gladly subtract you from it.

Being at peace is not weakness but power. because is not easy to leave people you love but hurt you.

How to know a woman has released 💦 during s£x
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A woman’s release doesn’t always look dramatic or obvious.
In fact, it shows more in how her body reacts than what you see.

Common signs include:
• her body relaxes suddenly
• deeper breathing or soft sounds
• sensitive response to touch right after
• emotional closeness or calm feeling
• reduced tension in her body

Some women may have natural wetness, but that alone does not always mean release.
Wetness can happen from arousal, hormones, or foreplay.

Also important to know:
• not all women release the same way
• some releases are internal and not visible
• some women don’t release every time, and that’s normal

The biggest sign is her response, not a particular fluid.

NOTE:
Release is about the body’s response and relaxation, not about how much liquid you see.
Every woman’s body is different.