Family Defence Prayer Conference

7 words for a long
and happy marriage
Yes Dear
I am sorry
It's my fault.

A successful marriage is based
On give & take:

Where husband gives money,
Gifts, dresses n wife takes it

&

Where wife gives advices, lectures,
Tensions & husband takes it..!!

SOME WAYS TO WAKE YOUR AILING MARRIAGE
1. Recognize that your marriage needs healing, resurrection, improvement est. unless you come to terms with reality, you won’t make any headway.
2. Identify the areas you need healing
(a). Communication in the home? Does it flow or are you having network problems? Is your line congested or busy? Don’t wait to try later insist on breakthrough
(b). Sexuality?
(c). Financial Problems-Management or scarcity?
(d). Dominance?
(e). Separations as a result of business, Job, House etc?
(f). No intimacy? Abandonment, Rejection, Ejection, Dejection?
(g). Interferences by in laws, friends, relations, neighbors or house help?
(h). Childlessness, second wife/husband?
(i). Health problems and lack of care?
3. Begin prayer and fasting today
(a). Give your life to Jesus now and confess all your sins.
(b). Dedicate yourself to reading the bible
(c). seek counsel from matured people of god whose marriage are good examples.
4. Call for family meeting today
(a). Apologize for whatever role you must have wrongly played
(b). seek for the opinion of other stakeholders for family.
(c). Hear them patiently and bring your anger under control
(d). Do not allow the meeting to end in stalement – the devil is a liar.
(e). Be ready to put in everything to make sure that peace reigns. Be ready to sacrifice your rights.
(f). Be consistent in your search for healing, peace, love, victory, breakthrough and reunion.

Ten Factors That Causes Relationship To Break
1. Being Suspicious
This factor has really make lots of relationship in our world today to break, because when you are relationship with your spouse and you don't trust the person, there is tendency that the relationship won't last, because in every relationship where there is no trust i don't know how the relationship would last.
2. Lack Of Respect
We lack respect for our spouse, we talk anyhow, we use abusive word on our spouse, you might say a word and forget but the person you said it to will not never forget it. Therefore we have to respect our spouse.
3. Jealousy
Jealousy is one of the thing that breaks relationship in our world today. Jealousy is deadly that it can make someone to be a murderer, you always want your spouse to be with you always and don't want any other lady around your spouse if you are a guy you don't want other guys around your spouse, when you see your spouse with any other person you will be jealous and start acting strange to your spouse causing problems to the relationship. So give your spouse freedom to relate to whosoever he or she wish to relate with.
4. Nagging.
When you both are having a little misunderstanding you start shouting and vibrating, you won't calm down settle the issue peacefully, you prefer shout calling the attention of the people around you. The issue both of you will sit down and settle now people will come and settle it for you. How do you think you spouse will feel, it is a disgrace for an outsiders to settle issues between you and your spouse.
5. Classical Complainer
A classical complainer is a person who complains too much he or she complains at everything or mistake that occurs; he or she believes that he or she is perfect so every other person are wrong. It is good to appreciate and not complain, if even the person, make him or her feel good, later you can correct the person secretly and he or she will appreciate it..