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RAW ANSWERS FOR TOUGH QUESTIONS IN MARRIAGE [RATFQIN]
QUESTION 1
"I have been married for 4 years. My Husband makes some outrightly crazy demands in the other room. For God's sake I am not a pr******te or an acrobat. Is what I am going through normal or strange? Is that what there is to marriage? Thanks Sir"
RAW ANSWER:-
The only Perfect Marriage is the Wedding of the Lamb and His Church at Eternity. What this implies is that your marriage will never br perfect and both of you have to continously and consciously discuss and work on your marriage. Convince him, pray for him to do away with his s*x demand that is bad and equally convince yourself and pray for yourself to accept those things he genuinely need that are not sinful.
Jesus warned us to beware of the yeast of the pharisees. Yeast makes bread to swell inflating it. In marriage a yeast may be lust or po*******hy that can inflate the man's s*x urge to the level that the wife cannot fulfil. For instance if your spouse is asking for a**l s*x, there are some sicknesses and distortions of the a**s attributed to a**l penetractions among others. There maybe exceptions however spouses should do away with health-threatning demands.
But if he needs oral stimulations and other activities that are pleasurable, do not deprive him and yourself of such. The truth is that when a WEDDED husband and wife are alone in their room, most rules are ruled out and there is liberty.
Do not say that you are not acrobatic. Go and join gymn club and Jog round your estate. Don't give any small flexible girl the opportunity to take your place. Don't remain the Analogue wife while someone else becomes the Digital that is always internet-ready to send and receive signals and download at anytime. Give it to him in the kitchen and in the garden. Visit his office during break time and give him a "Quickie" what they call sharp sharp (if he is the CEO oooo)
As a husband reading this, do not for any reason demand or do what will cause injuries on your wife. It's only a mad man at a graveyard that injures his own body. Don't watch p**n and tell your wife to do that because p**no is 90% fake and those actors mostly take drugs to act the remaining 10%. Always make it pleasurable and prepare her mind long before the Act of Marriage.
●■○ By Father Abraham Ayegba Opaluwa
A COREN-Certified Civil/Structural Engineer by profession and a Marriage Counsellor by calling. A member of House On The Rock, he is married to the Sarah and they live in Lekki with their 3 children.
Reach him on WhatsApp or call 08070809889
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