Talk With Chena

What I wish I knew before getting married

Before I got married, I wish someone had told me that my husband will move through emotions quickly and easily. You see, I’m a sulk-queen - when I’m upset, I go mute, I just withdraw and wait for the apology parade to begin 😅. But my hubby? He’s like a breeze - upset one minute, laughing the next 🤣. I’d be like, “Babe, what’s so funny? Did you forget you just offended me?” 😂 he’d just smile and say but I have apologized na and move on to the next topic like it’s no big deal 😢.

It dawned on me that I’m stuck with this man; the only person permitted to annoy me every 2 seconds, so I better learn to forgive fast! Forgiveness in marriage is like a daily vitamin - you gotta take it whether you like it or not. Love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a decision to forgive your partner (and sometimes in advance, lol 🤣).

Better late than never, right? 🤷‍♀️ Now I’m learning to let go, unlearn, and relearn... and my heart is thanking me for that.

Am I the only one who struggles with this? 🤷‍♀️ Let me know in the comments!

What’s the most challenging part of marriage for you? Forgiveness, communication, or something else? 🤔

Happy new month my friend, welcome to the month of October. ❤️
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Dear Single,

The pain of marrying the wrong person is far worse than your current fear of not getting married before 30.

If you join your self in holy matrimony with someone that does not recognize your heavenly Father, has no relationship with God; you can’t go farther with him and you shouldn’t go further with him.

Are you waiting for the ‘right one’ or settling for ‘good enough’? 💕

What’s the most important quality you look for in a partner? Share in the comments.

Happy Sunday my friend 🥰

Your Friend,
Chena ❤️

Hey believer!
I can understand struggling with sexual sin, admitting it is a sin,It’s you one step closer to overcoming it.

You genuinely and continually trust God to overcome it, Daily with AN OPEN FACE beholding as in a glass (THE WORD OF GOD). You change from one level of Glory to another level of Glory.

I see you 🥰

Your friend,
Chena ❤️
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Hey girl!

Your 20s are a wild ride, and it's totally okay to feel lost sometimes. But here's the thing: this decade is a gift! It's a time to figure out who you are, what you want, and where you're going.
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I have decided to follow Jesus
No turning back

Happy New Month beautiful people. Welcome to the month of June. 🎊 my birth month 🕺

This month you will shout your shout of victory.

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Faith that is developed and not deployed cannot deliver . faith is saying it when there’s no reason to say it.

Happy new week ❤️