Dare Fancy K

You can not have true relationship without reciprocity. You cant get into a relationship to get and not give. Do you give as good as you get? Add up what you getting and weigh against what you're giving and then you will really know whether you are joined to anything. E.g people go to work, they're not committed to the job,they just want the cheque and that's why it doesn't work and can't work for anybody. Until you're committed you can't get could be because the could be is locked up behind commitment. Some people haven't thrown their whole self to anything. You want to get something that you're never willing to give. What donyou give back for what you get. Without reciprocity no relationship will reach its apex . Wonder what would have happened in your school,relationships, marriage, church if you're committed if you have thrown your whole self. Always being casual never committed. Some of the most casual people are talented people because talented people will lay down their talents and use their talents as a camouflage to cover up their lack of commitment. I can't be committed to everyone,I can't join 5 churches, I can't be with several women because I take my commitment seriously to spread it loosely. It cost too much. I see a lot of people that I like,that interest me and intrigue me and I'll like to be friends but I don't become friends with them because I understand that real friendship is an investment and there's no enough of me to go around so I will be nice and casual aquitance because I understand that real friendship is a commitment it means I will be there for you, watch your back,return your calls, will emotional,spiritually and financially do whatever I can to undergaurd you and I can't do that with everybody. So people won't do for God what they want God to do for them and they wonder why their prayers aren't being answered. So they try to bring the giant down without commitment. If you don't have commitment you can't succeed. But instead of having Levi first we have generation of people who want to skip over Levi and try to have Judah,the praising generation, shouting generation. The generation that goes for inspiration without impactation. Tou wants all the benefits but non of the responsibilities. You want a husband but you don't want to be a wife,you just a girl who wants some man you're not a wife. You can't have a man and not change your life. You take a half committed man and woman,you have half committed kids and the whole house will be half committed because children will be what they see. Kids will be reflection of you. Greatness cost and is not cheap or on sales. If you are great man don't let anyone drag you down to the bargain basement and put yourself on sale so you can have somebody or company in the house if am going to be lonely let me be by myself. You can't give an offering to God to bless a relationship, work,marriage study you're not committed to.