Nwaimo Emmanuel Buchi

On Children’s day, “happy children’s day.
On Mothers Day, “happy Mothers Day.
On Fathers Day, “happy Father’s Day to the (responsible) men out there 😂😂😂

Why didn’t you say, happy children’s day to the kids that ace their exams or kids that don’t spoil things at home?

Or happy Mothers Day to to all the good mothers out there ?? Or mothers who never nag or insult their husbands.

I have long known that our statuses as men and fathers are hugely dependent on our ability to provide or meet expectations, while for other gender it’s just for them to be available!

You will see a man doing the most for his family, you will never hear him complain even when the wife contributes nothing financially or in house keeping, make woman do am, all the news papers go carry am!

A woman who steps up to take care of her kids when the father of her kids couldn’t do it is a responsible adult, a man who does the same is a responsible adult too.

It doesn’t make the man a mother or the woman a father !

Just imagine a single father coming out to call him self a queen 👸 because he takes care of his kid alone 😂😂. I doff my hat for every mother be it single or married who goes extra mile to take care of their kids especially when a dead beat dad is unable to play his part, but it still doesn’t make you a father.

I don’t want to open the chapter of women who prevent the father of their kids from playing active roles in their kids life just to hurt the man, and they will come out and claim the man is irresponsible 🤦🏽‍♂️.

Please stop bringing innocent children into your skirmishes, it will always affect them psychologically.

Go and do your research on the negative effects of single parenting on kids and you will see more than enough reasons why it shouldn’t be a thing of pride. The most I advice people is to look for father or mother figure for their kids, it can be either of the grand parents or a close relative.

May God help us all 🙏

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