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COWS DON’T GIVE MILK

A father used to say to his children when they were young: —When you all reach the age of 12 I will tell you the secret of life. One day when the oldest turned 12, he anxiously asked his father what was the secret of life. The father replied that he was going to tell him, but that he should not reveal it to his brothers.

—The secret of life is this: The cow does not give milk. "What are you saying?" Asked the boy incredulously. —As you hear it, son: The cow does not give milk, you have to milk it. You have to get up at 4 in the morning, go to the field, walk through the corral full of manure, tie the tail, hobble the legs of the cow, sit on the stool, place the bucket and do the work yourself.

That is the secret of life, the cow does not give milk. You milk her or you don't get milk. There is this generation that thinks that cows GIVE milk. That things are automatic and free: their mentality is that if "I wish, I ask..... I obtain."

"They have been accustomed to get whatever they want the easy way...But no, life is not a matter of wishing, asking and obtaining. The things that one receives are the effort of what one does. Happiness is the result of effort. Lack of effort creates frustration."

So, share with your children from a young age the secret of life, so they don't grow up with the mentality that the government, their parents, or their cute little faces is going to give them everything they need in life.

Remember 👇👇

"Cows don't give milk; you have to work for it."

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Congratulations to Barrister Seyi Tinubu on the well-deserved honour of being conferred with the prestigious title of Okanlomo of Yorubaland by His Imperial Majesty, the Alaafin of Oyo HIM Oba Abimbola Akeem Owoade I . This is not just a title; it is a recognition of service, character, and commitment to humanity.

Over the years, Seyi Tinubu has consistently demonstrated that leadership goes beyond privilege—it is about impact. From supporting youth empowerment initiatives and educational programs, to humanitarian outreach that has brought relief and opportunities to underserved communities, his actions reflect a genuine desire to uplift others. These efforts, carried out quietly and consistently, embody the true spirit of Omoluabi that Yorubaland holds in high esteem.

This honour serves as a powerful encouragement to Nigerian youths everywhere. It sends a clear message that integrity, service, and dedication to societal growth are noticed and rewarded. It reminds young people that regardless of background, meaningful contribution to community and nation is the true path to honour and lasting relevance.

As Barrister Seyi Tinubu steps into this new role, may this title further inspire him to remain steadfast in humility, compassion, and service. May he continue to use his influence to bridge gaps, empower the next generation, and promote unity and progress across Yorubaland and Nigeria at large. Leadership is a journey, and worthy tenure is defined by consistency, listening to the people, and placing the common good above personal interest.

Once again, congratulations, Okanlomo of Yorubaland. May your tenure be impactful, honourable, and enduring.

PC @ Adebo Ogundoyin Page

🔥 DREAM BIG — AND THEN DREAM EVEN BIGGER 🔥

Here’s something you’ve probably never been told:

Your dream is never too big — if anything, it’s too small.

We grow up being told to “be realistic,” but realistic has never changed the world. Every breakthrough you admire today exists because someone refused to limit their imagination.

💡 The Truth

Airplanes, smartphones, electric cars — all of them were once dismissed as impossible.

History proves one thing:
The world expands every time someone dreams beyond logic.

So if your dream feels wild, impossible, or unbelievable…
you’re on the right track.

🎓 The Psychology Behind Big Dreams

There’s a concept called Self-Expansion Theory. It says:

When you aim higher, you grow higher.
Your skills evolve.
Your character strengthens.
Your vision sharpens.

Big dreams don’t just build futures — they build you.

🔥 Give Yourself Permission

Stop asking:
❌ “Is this too crazy?”
❌ “What will people think?”
❌ “Do I deserve this much?”

Start asking:
✔ “What if I can do it?”
✔ “What if this is my purpose?”
✔ “What if I’m capable of more than I’ve ever allowed myself to believe?”

Your dream chose "you" for a reason.

🚀 A Practical Exercise

Right now:

1. Write your dream down.
2. Double it.
3. Then ask:

“What kind of person must I become to achieve this?”

That one question can transform your entire direction.

🌟 Final Reminder (Inspiration)

One day, someone will point to your story and say:

“See? That’s proof anything is possible.”

But only if you stop shrinking your vision to fit your circumstances.

Dream audaciously. Dream boldly. Dream without apology.

Because the only dream that’s “too big”…
is the one you never start chasing.

Abimibiola Reliable Realtor Olateju Okunola