Teethopener

Dear ladies,

A man wants to be happy and be 100% sure about where he stands in life and in his woman's life before he marries her.

Don't disturb a man with marriage talks. He knows what he is doing. If he's not talking to you about marriage, it's because he doesn't want to get married to you for a number of factors, which he might not be willing to tell you, or which he might have discussed with you countless times but you have refused to change or adjust to fit into his picture of a wife.

Women always think it's all about s*x for men. But it is not. No man wants to feel pressured into doing things he is not prepared to do. Forget the rubbish they feed you with on social media. 90 percent of men will not marry you if you're not submissive and respectful to them. How you relate with his friends and family matters. How you talk to him and manage your anger matters. The level of your jealousy can put him off. I hear some people say they can't marry men whose mothers are still alive. Maybe you will be lucky to find a simp who will settle for you. But real men like us will avoid you like the plague.

Unless you're the one that will marry your husband, submission is a must for the African man. Unless of course you want to remain single and keep whining like the bitter and unhappy women who call themselves feminists. I think we have been pretending about these things for too long.

Know this and know peace