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‎In the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson, “Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.” So let your light shine brightly.

Your beautiful soul is your greatest gift to the world.
‎The beauty of a soul is more than a collection of qualities. It’s a manifestation of a person’s journey through life.
At the heart of it, these qualities – compassion, positivity, authenticity, respect for life, empathy, unconditional love, courage, gratitude, and inner peace – are not just traits. They are the result of a lifetime of experiences, lessons learned, and personal growth.

So if you’re striving to cultivate a beautiful soul, remember – it’s not about reaching a destination. It’s about embracing the journey. The ups and downs, the twists and turns – they are all part of your story. And it’s this story that shapes your soul and defines your beauty.

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PHONE USE RULES FOR COUPLES:

1. Don't make a habit of putting your phone on silent mode or turning it off each time you're with your partner. It makes you look like you are hiding something

2. Save your partner's phone number using a special title like "Hubby", "Love", "Wife", "Sweetie". Or save using a title plus the official name. Using the official name only makes your partner look like just the other contacts on your phone

3. Answer your partner's phone call with loving affectionate words like "Hi love", "Hey honey". How a conversation starts detetmines how it flows. If you start warm, you two will enjoy talking with each other on phone

4. End the talk on a high. Say "I love you", say a joke, a compliment, a warm phrase before you hang up. Hang up with a smile

5. It is OK to chat with friends online. But never chat with another person more than you chat with your partner

6. If you will be busy, notify your partner you will not be able to pick up calls or reply texts promptly. Inform your partner what you will be doing and approximately for how long. This prepares your partner and brings peace because your partner will not feel ignored

7. Flirting on phone is good but only flirt with your partner

8. Tell off people who try to flirt with you, entice you and charm you on phone. Let them know that you are taken

9. Take lots of photos and videos together to capture moments. You will need those pics and videos in future as you look back

10. When you go out on dates, keep the phone away, minimize phone use so that you focus on each other

11. Don't make a habit of walking away from your partner to answer phone calls. Your partner will perceive you are hiding something or having an affair. Love is about perception

12. After the date and you don't live together; man, call her up and check on her, tell her you got home safe; lady, send him a text, thanking him for a wonderful time

13. Unless it's an emergency, when you can't reach your partner and you probably know he/she is at work or doing something; don't keep calling and texting desperately. You will only look like a nag to your partner and that will make your partner detest phone contact with you. Relax, your partner will see your missed call and text

14. When you see a missed call or text from your partner, please call back or reply as soon as you can. Put your partner at ease

15. Save your partner's phone number as an emergency number to be contacted incase something happens to you and your phone is locked

16. Avoid fights and arguments over the phone, they are difficult to manage and leave a bad feeling when you hang up, thus negatively affecting how you two relate. Talk about serious issues that are volatile face to face

17. When your partner offends you or you two aggrevate each other, never refuse to pick up your partner's phone call. That only makes matters worse. Keep the line of communication open so that you work things out. If you can't talk at the moment you are hurting, just pick up the call and say "I can't talk right now" and your partner will understand

18. Inform your partner when and why you need to turn off your phone when you two are apart. Keep your partner from worrying

19. When you two are having fun together, it is good to celebrate your love online but don't post too much about your lovelife. Some things are best kept private. The world doesn't have to know every detail of how you love each other

20. When you two are having problems, don't vent about your partner directly or indirectly on your social media posts

21. Don't let your partner get news about you from social media like your online friends. Tell the news to your partner first, and then post online

22. If your partner tries calling you but your line is engaged, explain who you were talking to. If someones calls you when you're with your partner, say who it was. Transparency and clarity enhances trust

23. Remember it is both your role to communicate. None of you should feel he/she is forcing a conversation or is doing much of the talking. Communication takes two

24. Put away the phone when your partner needs your undivided attention, especially in the bedroom. Don't be intimate, holding your phone, more than you hold your partner

Phone use can affect your relationship/marriage negatively or positively. Be smart as you use your smartphone.

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She watched in admiration as her friend jumped up to hug her husband who just came in from work.

And then, she looked on as the man put up a cheerful countenance, not minding the tired look on his face.

“My Angel. How was your day? Seeing your beautiful face alone brightens my day. You look fabulous." He said to his dear wife as he leered at her gracefully.

“Awwwwwn. I am blushing ooooo. I know you have plans for tonight. This one you just dey hail me like this." She yabbed her husband.

And then, she excused herself from her friend as she accompanied her husband to the room carrying his briefcase.

A few minutes later, she came out with a beautiful set of jewelry. She was looking so excited and happy.

“My Babe bought a new set of jewelry for me. Awwwwwn. So thoughtful of him, just take a look at this." She said as she showed her friend.

“Wow! This is so beautiful. Your husband is such a romantic man. Just look at how he spoils you with gifts and showers you with affirmations." She continued.

“I just wish my husband could learn this. That man! Always finding fault and looking for what he will say I did to him. Kai! My world!" She làmented.

And then, her friend gave her a knowing look, smiled and said to her,

“My dear ooo. It has not always been like this oooo. I used to be as àngry and frûstrated as you are. My husband used to be one of the most insensitive men I had ever met.

He forgets my birthdays, forgets our special days and rarely buys things for me. Aaaaah! Words of affirmation? He never uttered them!

I nàgged and cómplained. At a point, I started giving him cold treatménts, just to express my pàins but none of them moved him.

I was almost giving up, and then, I came across one of the posts made by the Wholistic Coach where she talked about the Law of Reciprocity.

According to her, whatever you desire to be done to you, do it first to your spouse.

If you love gifts, learn to buy gifts for your partner.

If you love affirmations, then shower your partner with beautiful and affirming words.

Do unto your partner what you desire them to do unto you.

At first, it didn't make sense to me, but I decided to just try it, since every other had fàiled.

And then, I started taking his personal days seriously. I would buy gifts for him. Instead of nàgging him, I started praising and affirming him.

It didn't work immediately oooo. It took some time before I started seeing results.

In fact, the results started coming when I stopped expecting a return of favour, I started doing them because I wanted to express my love and commitment to him.

The first day he bought something for me, aaaaaah, heaven was let loose oooo. And I must confess that things never remained the same.

So you see, love is reciprocal. Everyone wants to be loved, appreciated, and affirmed.

You need to be unto your spouse, what you desire him to be unto you." She encouraged.

Those words sank differently. Right there and then, she decided to do things differently.

Love is a beautiful thing to those who give beautifully to their partners.

Do unto your partner what you desire them to do unto you.

This is one of the golden rules of a thriving marriage.

Your marriage will thrive 🌹🌹🌹

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