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Happy International Day of People with Disabilities.

As a Nigerian with a disability, life is leading you 1-0 already. The struggles against inaccessible environment do not only affect our productivity in life and functionality at works, but our sense of belongings as citizens of Nigeria.

Regardless, many Nigerians with disabilities are sailing on the strength of "what does not kill us makes us stronger". The battle will never be won on the ground of lamentation, but total advocacy remains the pathway.

I am celebrating everyone with disability globally. With continuous efforts, we will strive, make a better society for generations to come.

Dear Future Madam,

I am a tech savvy enthusiast, I envision a family that spends time learning and earning digitally. I see my children while growing up playing games, learning skills, building apps and games, and doing lots in digital tech careers.

I am SAPIOSEXUAL; my desires to have a brainy Lady as a wife has never ceased one day. I sure know that being intelligent is not the prerequisite to building a good home, being a loving mother to my children and a loving wife to me, but please I am so much interested in your intelligence, commitment to digital tech space.

I do not know who you are, but I sure hope you will come fill up your space soon.
Buy your laptop if you dey come sha 😄😄😄

゚viralシ

If your scale of measurements for success is materialism, you do not understand what being successful means generally. Our individual priority defines our differences in life. What you prioritize so badly maybe someone's least of concerns.

You are not better than others because you have a car or build a house. Others without these have their priorities. They may have privately what worth more than your car or house.

For example:
Some people see storey building as a symbol of wealthiness, but in my case, I won't see it that way. My concern would be:
Can I Climb the stairs?
It won't matter to me how much of relevance you attach to this kind of materials because it may not be accessible to me. "Not the affordability, but the accessibility"

Do not judge others on the basis of what you have, or feel important. Priority makes the difference. What you adore is not appetizing to everyone.

Some prioritize spirituality
Some prioritize materialism
Some prioritize family over everything
Some prioritize money over other things
Some prioritize education passionately

We are all rich; it is our priority that makes us different.

゚viralシ

Hey,

🔥Your disability only challenges you, it never stops you from becoming anything better in life. Whatever challenges us is testing our strength. Don’t fall for its tricks, show your strength because you are strong.

: haven’t you realized how strong you are?

Growing up in an environment where people with disabilities hardly thrive above circumstances, hardly become successful, preparedness for rough phases and odd times of life remains a way of life to me. None of the challenges of life takes me unaware because I know who I am, where I come from and I remain focused as I know where I am going.

: How prepared are you knowing fully well that where you come from has so much impacts on your becoming in life?

Wake up and change the narratives.
1. 🙏 Don’t say “because of my disability” I can’t do this. Find a way to do it differently because you are disabled. You will be proud of yourself that you could do it without the expected limitations.

: Your challenges in life has limited you from doing certain things, have you tried the other things that your disability, challenges do not stop you from being the best at it?

2. 👍Don’t be a pessimist under the umbrella of how you are or what you are facing. When you are afraid of what you may face in the battles ahead, the courage to start dies along the line. Expecting this or that very factor will be a challenge to your success is never bad, but it becomes negative when you let such expectations kill your goals.
I surely believed one day, some days, these things would happen to me, trust me, my victories have been in the faith that when these problems come, may I have the strength to fight the battle, may God send me the right people to see me through them.

QUESTION: Having seen what may possibly limit you from achieving success, have you carefully considered what could triumph you over these bridges of life? God can do it, men can help you get it right, nature will definitely play out in your favour.

3. 🔥There’s no end to the path of greatness, your vision is the energy and fuel that determines your destination. Some pray to just build a house in their lifetimes ; when they reach this, it is the climax of their vision, they settled there because they feel fulfilled.

QUESTION: Do you know you can even do better than everyone else you see today? Having determination is not enough, having the vision to get to the end of it all is what matters.

What do you pray for?
Where do you work your ass out to be in the nearest future?
Your energy takes you only to where your vision can. You can’t do more than you envisage.

゚viralシ

There’s a big difference between MINDING YOUR OWN BUSINESS and HAVING PRIDE

I met a friend who commended my efforts in creating motivational video contents and I asked, “But you don’t comment on the videos, so why praising me?” He replied “Smart, you too get pride, you no Dey comment on my post, so I am returning the energy”

Smiles, what’s the problem?
I h@te dragging, engaging in derogatory conversations, or to help you talk down on someone or something I am clueless about. If I want to do so, trust me I will go on many days of research to be well grounded in what I will be saying.

I wake up everyday with a particular belief “anyone can be my helper” I am also helping people in many ways. I am mindful of what to say, whom to say to or talk about and even topics to jump on regardless of the trends.

As a professional social media manager managing international accounts, I hardly let Nigerian social media trends get into me. I adhere to the international standard of managing social media accounts. I have seen a situation where a comment made on a particular post for fun cost someone of his dream job. Don’t make others laugh unnecessarily, or else they will necessarily laugh at you.

If I want to contribute to or criticize a particular post, it will be done constructively. Trust me, if I engage constructively on your post, you might end up hating me because your expectations would fail woefully. You can’t write rubb.ish but expect me to commend your thoughts positively because we are friends.

Above all, I have gained a lot and enough from social media that I feel being abusive or throwing shades just for fame won’t help my mental health and psychological growth. I am building myself on this space.

“YOUR ENEMIES ARE NOT MY ENEMIES; THEY MAY BE MY HELPER OR THE PEOPLE I AM TO HELP”

If a post does not make a sense, don’t comment. What you think is for fun is visible to so many people with different ideological perspectives. They see your posts, comments and reactions to social issues. Meanwhile, my next post will be on LEVERAGING SOCIAL MEDIA TO MAKE SUCCESS

Don’t go for someone who does nothing to you all because you have a friend who is not on the same page with the person. Don’t inherit enemies on social media; beyond this space is a larger society where interdependence is key to our growth.

Have a great day ❤️🔥🔥
If you truly read this to the end, I love you dearly ✅
Reply let me know you read to this point.

゚viralシ

NEVER LOOK LIKE YOUR PROBLEM

This is one of the many strengths in me; never to look like what I am passing through. God has been gracious, of course we collectively know this but there are storms of life I endure through that are not necessarily worth sharing.

A pretty lady on this space had a long chat with me recently. The chat was more of an interview or enquiry session. She said "I have keenly observed your lifestyle for years and I am pushed to ask today, you NEVER give a damn about challenges of life. Is it that you are getting everything right? Or you are just blessed with every support you need in life?"

I told her, " I don't wear my challenges of life anymore, they don't worth my time to even create distractions. They come and are meant to go the way they came. I do have rough days, but I am at a point I deal with issues personally.

Don't become a sadist in view because of challenges surrounding you; you are walking through the phases of trial to testimonies.

Your problems should not be a makeup to wear
Your problems should not be a public affair unless you are at a point that working on yourself silently no longer helps.
Don't sell your life problems; you won't see a buyer, but share your life experience when you are done dealing with the problems, you are inspiring someone to keep grinding.

Your Take Home: Don't look like your problems, it does not reflect strength, but weakness. Others are going through what would break you into piece within a second, but they live in the expression of time and season without complaint.

゚viralシ

Your life is a definition of commitment, determination, focus, zeal and goal getter.

We grew up writing jamb often and often; not because we didn't pass JAMB but because we were after LAW COURSE meant for the children of the rich. How they got the admission then was something we kept wondering. We will read, read and read, but only get closer to the pass Mark.

You were resilient and committed to the call, and today you are a graduate from LAW department. Is anything more than this?
It is an achievement because it is not easy to pursue your dream course for years.

Congratulations on your new age. This is the phase we have been waiting for. A transitional phase to the dream land.
Happy birthday dearest brother Jibrin Seidu