How to Find the Right Partner

*LOVE-HATE IN RELATIONSHIP*

Does it really matter how u are treated in a relationship? Yes!, It does, because we best understand how our partner feels about us by the way they treat us. But there is a panic-stricken fact in a relationship most people have failed to understand, often times we consider them as inappropriate exhibition of love, however, whatever name u chose to call it can only be explained in one term "LOVE-HATE."
Now the question is "does LOVE-HATE exist in a relationship? Yes it does. LOVE-HATE in a relationship is mostly understood when there is equality in love and hate. What do I mean? Ur partner loves u much as he/she hates u. Ur partner feels happy when u are around but at any slightest provocation or argument, he/she set the emotion ablaze. At some point, u wonder if truly u are loved, yes u are loved and that's the truth, just that the proportion of his/her love equates equal to the hate

*How do u know their is LOVE-HATE in a relationship?*

*Jealousy:- jealousy is one of the things u see in a relationship battling with LOVE-HATE. Ur partner wouldn't want to see u with anyone, he/she would love to have u all to themselves and he/she would fight in making sure they secure their place in ur life not minding how their Partner will feel. When it comes to their relationship, they are more or less self-centered. Pls don't misconstrue jealousy as a bad sign because every true love must have atom of jealousy but excess of it without minding how ur partner will feel is an act of LOVE-HATE.

*Nagging:- this is another factor one need to know about LOVE-HATE in a relationship. In a situation ur partner complains practically on everything that happens, in fact they sees nothing good in all u do, and it seems ur best isn't enough. If u are experiencing such thing in ur relationship, have it in mind ur partner is loving u just as he/she hates u.

*Short time fight:- Another sign of LOVE-HATE in a relationship is short time fight but very fatal, ur partner beats u at any slightest provocation, perhaps over frivolous matters, he/she bounds on u when u ever try to oppose their idea, but one significant thing about this fight is that it doesn't last. No matter how fatal it could be, there is always atmosphere of love and peace. So if u are in such situation, ur relationship is nothing but LOVE-HATE.

*Kindness:- don't be surprised, a relationship with LOVE-HATE mostly care for each other since the proportion of hate is equal to love.


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