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Dad Who Abandoned His Daughter Tries To Hug Her, Brother-In-Law Shuts Him Down Brutally

This Dad Told His Daughter Her $20K Wedding Is Now A Running Joke For Family And Friends – Was He Too Harsh?

AITA for something I said while comforting my step daughter?

My step daughter (19) recently lost a very wanted but unplanned pregnancy around month five. We aren’t sure because she has been very unclear about dates with us. She is obviously heart broken, as we all are. We are trying to help her anyway we can.
She was at our house a couple days ago doing laundry, they come here instead of a laundromat, and I was helping her. She pulled out a pair of maternity pants and lost it, totally understandable. I asked if she wanted a hug or to be left alone and she sobbed on my shoulder for a good 10-15 minutes. Here’s where I guess I was an AH:
After she calms down she notices she got make up all over my white top and she apologizes for messing up my shirt. I tell her it’s okay, don’t worry about it, it’s not a big deal, I’ll just spray it and toss it in the wash. She says okay and she would like to be alone for a little while. I ask if she wants tea or water and she said no she was just going to finish up and go home for a nap. I’m really trying not to push so I let her know I would be in my office if she needed anything but not to feel rushed out. She said goodbye and left about 30 minutes later.
When my husband got home he let me know SD and her fiancé are very upset and so was he. Apparently she thought I was talking about the baby when I said it’s okay and not a big deal. Her, her fiancé, and her sister (16) are not speaking to me and my husband was giving me one word answers when he does talk to me. Step sons (23 & 18) are both just staying out of it. Hubs is now speaking to me but still thinks I was wrong saying the baby doesn’t matter.
I was talking about the shirt, she was talking about the shirt. I don’t have any children of my own...

AITAH for ghosting my GF of 8 years and not giving her money for our trip?

So about two months ago, me and my girlfriend of 8 years took a trip together to Europe for two weeks. It was an an amazing vacation and we had an incredible time, but after we returned she started acting increasingly distant from me.
She went to a wedding and had a +1 but didn’t invite me or tell me about it until a few days before. Then she ignored my calls while I was away on a business trip and never texted or returned them until after I got back.
When she finally picked up I asked her what happened (in a very nonchalant and non-accusatory way) and she didn’t give any sort of solid answer. When I pressed her about it (she always gets upset at me if I don’t call her back, even if it’s just like an hour later) she just screamed at me “I didn’t feel like talking to you! How about I never talk to you again!” And hung up. Tried calling her back, she didn’t pick up. Sent her a text a day or two later, no response.
At this point something inside me just kind of broke. Like, we’ve had fights way bigger than this and I’ve always tried to patch it up with her because I was head over heels for her… but this time, it was as if the “in love” feeling just vanished instantly. I think it was because her reaction was so... unprovoked.
Three weeks later she calls me and I freeze, I don’t pick up. She starts sending angry messages telling me I better pick up “or else” and accuses me of cheating (I didn’t). I don’t pick up because I know it’s going to be an absolute sh*tshow of a phone call.
Another 2 weeks have passed. I’ve kind of accepted that the relationship is over. But I feel guilty about not paying her back for the trip (we used her card while traveling abroad because mine has a foreign transaction fee).
The trip was expensive, about $20,000 total, $10,000 of which is already been split...