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After seeing the online response to Adele's weight loss picture, I'm certain about one thing: no matter who you are or where you're at, people WILL judge you! So, what's the point of giving a damn?
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On a more serious note though, relying on others' validation and perception of ourselves often leads to doubt, fear, and constantly second guessing ourselves. We forget to trust our gut, our learning and our principles when we rely too much on others. It becomes a vicious cycle. We fear judgement, yet we use it as a parameter for our decisions. Instead, we can start by reflecting on our own motivations and by being a little less critical of others.

Is it really possible to be positive and happy all the time? Recently came across this term called "toxic positivity". You know that culture (mostly on the internet) that focus on over-emphasis of a happy and optimistic state and sort of invalidates negative feelings and emotions? Yeah that! Over time this "think positive" culture had gone quite overboard. I think a better approach would be to focus on acknowledging...both the negative and the positive. And then moving on to the next experience. Afterall neither of these last forever 🤷‍♀️.
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