Ankur

Fear of what other people will think/tell about us exists covertly and overtly till you integrate experientially that in reality actually it does not matter.

Yday I had been to the move 36 Vayadhinilae! The movie ended with the line - Your dream is your signature!

We women do easily settle inside a comfort zone isn't it? It becomes so comfortable that even the thought of stepping out of does not occur. As a Facilitator I have come across many reasons, from participants and women in particular, for not taking time to attend program or do things for themselves. We women are masters in finding reasons! :D

One reason that was shared with me few years back and which has stayed with me - I have to cut fruits for the family in the evening at 4.00! This was for a one day program and not a month long one!! Let's also be aware of the places where we are doing tasks that can be done by the people involved!

Family is definitely an integral part of a woman. Along with the family why not something for ourselves too. Yes, for some, family itself is that space and path which is absolutely fine. If there is a constant resentment, hunger and loneliness eating you then questions begin!

Ma I love you and please, now I am a Ma too
Others are least priority when it comes to my children and others opinion matter too
Talking with others about my children is like my breath and beware if someone gives opinions about how my children should behave
Happiness is something I experience when I feel complete with my children and when I can get a few minutes of alone time
Energy, I have a lot when my children ask me to do something special for them and it is something I resist when they are demanding
Relationship with my children is my forte and my rebellion too